i'm new here, and i am amused/dismayed at all the posts about size. if you know what to do and really care about learning what pleases your partner size does NOT matter!women are turned on by touch, of course, but romance, respect, caring, etc. are a bigger part of that. (mature women anyway!)physically, size doesn't make a whole lot of difference, especially LENGTH, which y'all seem to be so worried about. if anything, you should wonder about GIRTH - how fat it is. that is the only thing that truly can be "better", although for most women it doesn't matter.when you make love to a woman, the thrusting pulls on the inner labia, (look it up), which in turn pulls on the hood of the clit (look it up), and stimulates it. in addition, every time you are fully "in", you are pressing/rubbing on her clit with your pubic mound. (look it up!). a little circular or back and forth grind when you're fully "in" helps. or short thrusts so you're pretty much in full contact...your pubic mound to hers...is great. even just staying totally in, as far as you can go, no thrusting but some nice grinding is great. obviously this does not require a LONG dick. on top of that - there are NO NERVE ENDINGS after the first two inches of her vaginal canal.if you think all of this is bullshit -- here is something i snipped off the net:A man's primary erogenous zone is most often his penis, a woman's is her clitoris. Considering the common embryological origins and structures of the two, this would seem to make perfect sense. The reason they are so sensitive is that they are highly populated with nerve endings. The greater the number of nerve endings an area of the body has, the more sensitive it is to stimulation. The clitoral glans has just as many nerve endings as does the penile glans, only in a much smaller area. This results in a very sensitive organ, perhaps even more so than the penis.Since so few women masturbate by stimulating their vagina alone, it would seem it is not as sensitive to sexual stimulation as is the clitoris. Analysis of the anatomy of the vagina reveals that it is not as densely populated with nerve endings as is the clitoris, and the nerves endings that are present are usually located only near the vaginal opening. The reason the vagina is not highly populated with nerve endings is likely because it also serves as the birth canal. It would seem counter productive to have an extremely sensitive vagina when it came time for a woman to give birth.During vaginal intercourse a man's penis is being directly stimulated by the walls of his partner's vagina, the movement of her labia minora is at best indirectly stimulating a woman’s clitoris. The thrusting penis moves the labia about, tugging on the clitoris itself. Since the size and shape of women's inner labia varying so much, and given that some women do not have them, it seems unlikely that all clitorises would receive the same amount of stimulation during intercourse. A woman's clitoris may also be stimulated by her partner's pelvic bone and mound as he presses in toward her body on the forward stroke. During intercourse, a man's primary erogenous zone is being directly stimulated on all sides and a woman's primary erogenous zone is being indirectly stimulated in an inconsistent manner, should we be surprised that the man usually reaches orgasm but often the woman does not?so take my advice!!!keep in mind, every girl is different. you have to pay attention to her body movements and her sounds. really listen and figure out what SHE likes. one girl may like something different from the next.if you aren't sure, ASK. i know it's hard to ask, and she might be too embarrassed to answer, but it's worth a try. even if you can work out a little code...like tell her if you're doing something she likes, she could say something, even if it's just "mmmmmmm", or she could just grab you tighter as a physical signal.and one last thing....under no circumstances....well, unless she specifically ASKS....should you bite, even gently, any part of her vagina!
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LISTEN UP GUYS! SIZE DOESN'T MATTER!!!!!
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That was a fun little read thanks for that... And yea... Fellow guys don't sit and fret over size, until someone told me (on these boards) that i was large i had never really thought about it Isn't a big deal don't make one out of it
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i love you both. Infact..i love u all!! HUGS ALL AROUND!! Very good read. .
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Thanks for an exellent female point of view! Hopefully some of the guys who worry and fret about the size of their penis will listen to someone who truly knows what's best...work it! And all should be fine no matter the size. Now guys....this is the view of most women...but there are some who really prefer larger sizes....and that's ok too.
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its so easy to sit there and say, "hey don't worry about size" when u're sitting on a 7.5 inch penis! think about the guys who are under 5 inches, and fully grown. Size for the partner is not the whole pie. Some guys might want to be bigger for their own well being. Think of those who had to go through high school and college in gang showers and got tormented, by guys that looked, and how that made the recipient of the torture feel. Guys that get tormented are the ones who end up snapping and goin postal on the people around them. So don't sit there and lecture small guys about being small and how it's not that important when u're sitting on something significantly larger. That'd be like Bill Gates walking up to a homeless person and spouting, "don't feel bad, money isn't everything" and then he gets on his 2,000 dollar, segway and rides the thirty feet over to one of his fancy cars then goes back to his 100 million home and parks his car in one of his 40 garages. And girls! don't lecture guys on size! You know for a fact it matters a hell of a lot! wanna test? Go to a hooters and find a girl with under an B cup bra size.
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I hear your pain, blakmnoncmps. I think there's something hard-wired into males to compare and compete in this area. Sometimes it's suppressed, and those guys are lucky. I think the argument about what pleases a woman is often not the real crux of the issue - it's more a matter of what constitutes masculinity. And although we know in our intelligent minds that penis size is not important, deep down there's a different voice.
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well, i can't speak to the mean things that guys say to other guys, i'm sure they do. if i were a guy i would be much more concerned about what my girlfriend thought than a bunch of neanderthals in the shower. And girls! don't lecture guys on size! You know for a fact it matters a hell of a lot! wanna test? Go to a hooters and find a girl with under an B cup bra size. that makes no sense whatsoever! i'm telling you, from years of experience, as well as talking to my girlfriends, that size DOESN'T matter. especially LENGTH. physiology proves that out. (re-read my original post!) and to compare boobs to penises??? hooters???? well, i guess some guys want big boobs. hooters was founded on big boobs. i'm sure i couldn't get a job at hooters. (not that i want to!) that has nothing to do with my POINT, which is that the one thing so many men are hung up on and freaked out about, does not MATTER to the majority of women. period. i've had them big, average and small. if the guy doesn't know how to please a woman, what really makes her come, you can have the biggest dick on the planet and still be considered lousy in bed. another thing - girls respond differently than guys. guys are very visual. guess that's why they want those big titties and airbrushed barbie doll pussies. everywhere they look....MTV, cologne ads, Victoria's Secret catalogues, their favorite whack mag...there are impossible girls in there. guys are set up in a way - presented with these unreal girls so that's what they think they want. pfffft!girls don't go to penis bars and ogle all the big dicks. they don't read dick of the month magazine. most girls do not meet a guy and think "i wonder how big his dick is". i don't know any girl that dumped a guy because he was "too small". and if size DOES matter to the girl you're with, maybe it's time to move on. if a guy i dated didn't like my b cups, the hell with him. plenty out there who'd love to latch on
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Ineligible - excellent point. women feel similar pressure to have "perfect" bodies, with big boobs, zero body fat, and a tiny tight pussy. in fact there is much more pressure on women than men, don't you think?to anyone: my posts are not to deny your feelings, just to maybe help a little from a woman's point of view. i love ALL your winkies!!!
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i think that the reason that most guys worry about size is beacuse they compare to other guys, and want to be bigger and longer, so they could be the alpha dog. I don't think it is so much the woman, but yet the other men.
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Great post! I think one of the keys to pleasuring your female partner is communication - as stated by you. Ask! If you're planning a lifelong relationship with someone asking them what they like is nothing in the big scheme of things.My partner and I actually used that 'code' thing you mentioned, without even hearing about it elsewhere. We just thought it was too 'porno-like' to scream "Yes" or "More" or whatever. We'd both use the guidance of hands, sounds, holds etc and soon enough could read each other like a books.That was truly a great post, although I've never been worried about my dick it was a good bit of information, and I believe no matter what you know there's always something new that can help you. Hopefully it'll help put an end to the "Am I big enough" threads. Stop thinking about your dicks guys and start thinking about having a good time together!
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Whatabout if you have an uncut dick
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what about it?
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This should be a sticky thread. 5 stars.
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if you have an uncut dick... you have an uncut dick. I swear it's true! If you don't believe me, look it up.