It's so messed up I guess I let my anger over run me and screwed up. So I took my ex to the movies. I dunno why but anyway everything went great she was laughing having a good time blah blah. everything was fine, then the next day I call. She's as happy as ever. But then I had to go I said I'd call back later and with a happy voice she said Okayz.Later on that night, I call her she's all depressed she just got off the phone with her other ex she still has mixed feelings for, then she's sending me messages saying I'm 100% through with you get over me I probably will go back out with him(I told her before she shouldn't)and the movies thing was awkward and odd and it was horrible. For the record, this was the guy that keeps treating her like crap then acting nice and doing sweet things and she forgives him.Anyway I got mad deleted her off myspace and I lost my temper and cussed at her and hung up. I called back shortly and apologized, we talked for awhile she asked if she could still talk to me I told her it's probably better if we don't talk anymore but I'm not really sure. So I sent her a message saying that we can continue talking but I still want to hold off on talking for a couple of days.My friends were talking to her later, because her friends and my friends both talk to us etc its like one big circle, and now she's saying I'm not talking to him anymore I need my space and he needs to realize that I like someone else now or some shit. to one person and to another he said I'm tired of him trying to pursuance me out of going out with (her other ex) again blah blah.1I never tried to get back with her.2 She pissed me off because I know she had a good time she was so happy until her other ex she still has mixed feelings for called and then she decides magically she had a horrible time.But ok really wtf, She is discarding her (as she sees me) one of her best friends, who loves her and cares about her, because he is trying to keep her from going out with a guy SHE KNOWS cheated on her by fingering some girl while they were together, who admitted it, then tried to lie about it, and then asked her out all in that day. And even though was Rejected started saying sweet thigns acting sweet putting things like I love (insert name) on his headline on myspace etc.And she starts going on well he really isn't that bad a person blah blah. It's like ok he just recentally cheated on you. admitted it, then tried to lie about it, he's tried to get you to do things he and you both known you weren't going to do. (Rated 18+)And Me and 8 other friends of ours were trying to tell her she shouldn't do this. Wtf is up with her, what should I do I just dunno.
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I guess I messed up eh?
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Such drama. She sounds pretty confused, and because of your previous relationship, you're not going to be able to do much to help her, since everything you say will be suspect. And becoming a cuddle bitch is not something you want to do anyway.Give her some space for a good long while, and hopefully she'll work things out, and you won't have to go crazy in the mean time. You really don't need all that drama.
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Im not into unrequitted love.Cut your losses, move on and forget her.
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Yeah, I read your whole post, and all your pronouns are really confusing, but nevertheless I'll try to post something helpful Anyways, are you currently going out with anyone? If not, are you trying to get back with her, or do you want to honestly be friends? If she is going to act like this, I wouldnt pursue her as a girlfriend or for a relationship, because eve if you end up going out with her again, she is bound to still have feelings for her other ex, which will only bring arguments, bad memories, and loss of commitment. Just a couple words.-Anondude
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I only wanted her as a friend, going back out with her even if she still had feelings for me is just too difficult for her to handle.
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Just say "you know what NAME, Im not ready for this either, I need my space from you.. when you act like this is doesnt make me feel any better and I just cant handle it right now"HA! We'll see what she thinks about that!
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She finally called admitting she was being a Biatch, and shocked because I didn't yell at her for it. =/ honestly what is there to yell about.