There is a girl at school ( iknow you have heard it a million times) I really liked her. Earlier in the year I started to talk to her cause I though she was hot. Well now we are good friends we talk all the time she will go out of her way to sit by me in class and we play card all the time. About 3 months ago I got up the courage to ask her to a dance and found out the day I was going to ask that she asked another guy out. They have been dating since. They seem to like eachother alot. Except about the time she asked him out we started to become alot better friends. I didnt really care at first but now I do. Should I give up on her ( as gf) and just stay good friends or should I stick with it. He is going out with a senoir and we are sophmores, do you think my chance will be next year? I dont want to make things weird because I like her as a friend. so should I not ever go out with her so it isnt weird or akward. Thanks.
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Should I continue to pursue her as gf
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well don't try to break up a relationship but just enjoy being friends. if you like her more than any other girl then be patient and dont go out with someone else half-heartedly. you dont need a girlfriend, so wait for one to come to you. if its her then great, if not then youll still be happy.
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Whoops messed up post, I meant he is going to be a senior not she .I dont need a girlfriend you are right but there are other girls and just wondering if this is a lost cause. Thanks for the advice. I wasnt trying to break up a relationship, yikes I would be a terrible friend
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The chances of a relationship surviving when one is in high school and the other is in college are small, especially if the college is some distance away. With cell phones and IM, it's easier to keep a relationship alive, but the one as college will meet new friends and either may want more of a physical relationship than can be had electronically.If this girl is that special, maybe the investment of a few more months of waiting will pay off. But don't put your life on hold if you find someone else interesting. As sophomores, you've both got a few more relationships (and years) to go before you find your one and only.
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you know, sorta got the same deal goign on in my life, Theres this girl at achool (shocker i know!)and he's really cute and i really liek her, only problem, That pesky boyfriend of hers, now, me and her are really good friends and we like talk on msn every day and we call each other alot, always hang out at school and stuff, i think if she wast going out with the other guy she would go out with me, but I have already decided that i will just wait patiently for him to screw it up, he has already 3 times, they are on again off again, only problem is this time seems liek it might stick, oh well
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I have already decided that i will just wait patiently for him to screw it upWait? As opposed to...what? I hope you're not turning down dating opportunities while you wait for your number to come up.
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nah, Theres no other girl i'm intrested in and noone who's intrested in me, so i'm basicaly free to do as i damn well please, and now, i enjoy the thoguth that me and her could someday be together, cause she's awsome.
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Just be aware that by the time she breaks up, you may be firmly in the friend zone, if you're not already. Don't put all your emotional eggs in that basket.
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oh steve, all my emotional eggs are broken and splatered on the floor, I'm just lookin for a hen to crap me soem eggs
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oh steve, all my emotional eggs are broken and splatered on the floor, I'm just lookin for a hen to crap me some eggs
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see, this is exactly why i like this girl, I talked to her earlyer today on msn and told her i was feeling kinda unapreciated today for various reasons, and she actualy called me and asked how i was and if i was ok, even thougth she has to go to bed at 9:30 she called me. thats awsome. Maybe its just because its nice to have someone show some compasion and intrest in my life, no one else I know would call me and ask if i was alright. I dunno, I know she has a boyfirend and i know she loves him, and i dont really think she would ever want to date me, but...I guess just knowing that she cares is good