New girl

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Hey, it's been a while. just to update if you read my older posts, I broke up with my girlfriend a while ago. my love life has really slowed to a halt and I'm craving a female companion. I had something with a girl but I think I fucked it up.with that said, I was hanging out in a town by myself while I waited for my little sister to get her haircut. So I decided to go to a cafe to get a cup of coffee. low and behold there was a girl there who I had a pretty big crush on in school though we never really talked or hung out. We talked for a little but I got nervous and a little overwhelmed that I told her I'll see her around. the thing is our lives never intersect, but me being who I am started Imagining being with her and sort of got a crush on her again. Since I never really hang out in that town I don't know how I would be able to talk to her again without seeming like I'm really weird for just showing up. My little sister works in that town now and I was thinking I could go to pick her up one day and just go into the cafe and say you guys have such good coffee I wanted to come back. Would that be weird? is it even possible for me to even start something up with her? whenever I get these crushes I feel like a stalker when I get obsessed

Can you get a message to her? You could invite her to a meal to 'catch up'.

well, she doesn't have a facebook or anything like that, her sister does, but I think it'd be weird to go through her

What about through the place she is working at? Even if it is an old-fashioned letter.

I would definitely do that. I'm definitely better in writing.. I have an idea to invite her to see an old Kurosawa film being played at an art theater on Thursday, however, it's far away and we'd be in the car together for a while, the last thing I want is for it to get awkward. in your opinion would it be best to keep it simple like just going for a cup of coffee? I'm horrible at making plans for these sort of things, in yet I thrive on trying to get them to happen

If she is interested in art movies, by all means. Don't worry about being in the car together - you can talk about mutual friends on the way there and the film on the way back.If you don't know whether she is interested in Kurosawa, give her an alternative, like coffee.

Well bad news is, I didn't ask her to go to the movie with me, in fact I missed the movie all together... GOOD news, I walked straight up to her and asked if she'd want to do something sometime, and she said yes and gave me her number... now the problem is trying to figure out something to do, I was thinking of taking her to this local cafe for coffee and live music, other than that there's nothing really special going on

Sounds good to me.

Awesome, thank you for your help!