I can make myself cum, but my boyfriend can't get me to cum. I fake it everytime and I don't want to tell him that he hasn't made me cum. It feels good when he's down there, but it just doesn't get me to climax. Any ideas?
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I can't cum
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I used to do that too, faked it alot. However you really should just tell him what you want and how you like it. Faking it will not help anything, you'll probably just feel bad. Plus he will go on thinking that he's pleasing you and bringing you to an orgasm but really he's doing it wrong. Trust me, he would like it better if you just told him. Preferably tell him that you faked it too, best to be honest. You don't have to go into great detail, but just be honest and tell him that you have faked it. Say you're sorry and the reason why you faked it, and explain what he can do to help.
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yeah, I'm not gonna tell him that I fake it. But I will tell him to touch me the way I want. Thanks though
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Originally Posted By: Twizyeah, I'm not gonna tell him that I fake it. But I will tell him to touch me the way I want. Thanks though Why won't you tell him that you faked it? Honestly I think you need to be honest. I mean if you've faked it every single time, then yeah I could see not telling him, but you could at least say you've faked it a few times. I faked it every single time probably for 2-3 months maybe more, when I told him, I just couldn't handle faking it any more. I felt way too bad about being dishonest. I didn't go into detail about how much or how often. I just explained to him why I had done it, and we worked it out. I don't get an orgasm very often, but telling him felt way better. If you don't want to fake it any more you will kind of have to tell him, because he might notice when you don't orgasm from stuff he normally does, and you want him to do other things. Although maybe he won't notice, I just think he probably will.
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I've faked it every single time. Quite honestly I care a little bit about my orgasm, but I care more about his orgasm. yes it would feel nice to have him make me cum, but I care more about him. It's just gonna have to be one step at a time to just tell him to do certain stuff and say stuff like, "oh yeah that's the spot" and stuff like that, but I just wanted to see if there was a special technique that someone else knew on how to orgasm easier.
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I know what you mean, I care way more about his orgasm. Well I don't really know any special techniques other than tell him what you like and what feels good. I know my guy loves it when I tell him when stuff feels good. And just try to relax and don't think about having an orgasm. Sometimes thinking too much about it will ruin the build up etc.
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THANKS
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wait, I thought not all girls could cum.
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Not all girls can cum from vaginal intercourse. They can cum through other stimulation though. pretty fucking sd life if you couldnt bust a goo stick here and there.
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My bf usually can not make me cum either, i usually touch myself during sex and that does the trick.
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Originally Posted By: erin8042My bf usually can not make me cum either, i usually touch myself during sex and that does the trick. yeah, I've done that too. It's quite fun!