"Omg he's soo hott!"...?

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Would you rather be called hott, handsome, beautiful, or sexy? I'm sure there are lots of other ways of telling someone they are attractive but they're more of degrees right? Like cute seems to be awww he's cute like a little stuffed bear or hott like Paul Walker or handsome like Ewan McGregor. wouldn't guys rather be called handsome or maybe even sexy instead of hott? Because when I think of hott I think of the person only wanting them for sex like in a lustful way but if you say handsome or gorgeous or sexy you seem to have more respect for the person. I may be thinking too much into it maybe. Personally, I feel kinda uncomfortable when a guy tells me I'm "hott" because it just sounds kind of...ew like he wants to do something nasty to you lol. Telling a girl she's beautiful or gorgeous sounds alot better IMO because it's like romantic type or something you know... more respectful. lol yeah I may be getting too much into it I was just felt like bringing that up.

For example I would say Jessica Alba is hott but not beautiful. I wouldn't call Angelina Jolie or Keira Knightley hott but beautiful. I dunno is that rude?

Yeah I know exactly what you mean. I find that beautiful, gorgeous and handsome are more respectful and well received, than the word hot.

Oh poor little girl.Over all men are pigs.We are fine with being sexy or hot and being used for sex.It doenst offend us at all to use us for sex and then go away adn leave us alone. I was always happy in my past to allow a girl to use me for a night or two and then move on. I had no problem being a sexual objet instead of a person.Most men are the same, fucking pigs I tell you, each and everyone of us,Oink Oink

Licks fingers.... Burp!

I'll take that as sarcasm

Its not, most guys have no problem being used for sex. Women get sex and female empowerment out of it, and we get sex, everybody is a winner!

I don't think many guys care if you call them 'hot' or 'sexy' or 'Bob' just as long as you call them sweetie :grin: I think there are diffrent shades of sexiness when it comes to both men and women though.

I, personally, do not take compliments well but if I were to be told by someone I was pretty, I'd rather hear that I was beautiful than 'hot' for some reason.

I was actually talking to a friend of mine earlier about this. She said that she finds guys to be cute and handsome, but she never sees a hot or sexy guy. Apparently, to her, only girls are hot or sexy.

So she's lesbian?

Actually, i wasnt being sarcastic, I was simply letting you in a secret of men.

Yes, like Gravity said, we dont care what the hell ya call us.

I believe she is, she says that she's not sure tho.

I doubt all men are like that. I'd hope to think at least one or two men in this world at least would care. It almost sounds as if you're meaning that guys ONLY want sex what the heck. please re-word in some way I'm kinda disturbed lolin caring... I mean opposed to what chance said... I mean I wouldn't mind telling my fiance or whatever that he's hott, sexy, etc but... you know

Oh, some men do care... ya know, the gay ones.

You asked about ways to express sexual attractiveness. If a guy tell you you're hott, it means that he's sexually attracted to you. If a guy tells you you're beautiful, it means that he's sexually attracted to you. Your issue is with the wording, not the concept.How about other stuff, besides sexual attactiveness? Would you rather hear a guy tell you that you're beautiful, or would you rather hear him tell you how much he enjoys being with you?

It all depends on the person Abi. For example, I have several guy friends who I think are attractive in different ways. One I think is 'cute' in the cuddly teddy bear sense; then I have that one is 'hot' because he has that rough and rugged thing going for him (classic bad boy). I have a male friend who is down right sexy as they come, whew, he's just got what it takes to make you say damn with an attitude! It all really depends on the person and where they stand on your cutie-o-meter; you'll think some are handsome, you'll think some are charming, and you'll even think some are just flat out pretty. To me, personality can make you more attractive or less attractive. It's all in the eye of the beholder hon.

When I hear someone say, "Man, she's hot," I get this mental image of some young "dude," not a "man."

I get called "cute" by my girlfriend all the time, I hate it. Cute is something you call a puppy or a baby. Apparently I'm a pretty boy who looks very young for my age, so I look cute to her. My reaction the word "cute" is also cute in her books. For the record, I mostly call her gorgeous or beautiful. She is sexy and hot, but unless we're in the mood or something it just sounds trashy. As does the pet name "Babe".

I can't read your post because of the colour, not even when I highlight it. It's too bright for a white background.

yeah I understand what you mean. everything always pertains to sex... annoying