Hey Guys I need adviceOk I'm a freshman and me nad my best friend just got back together being friends after being sperated in school for middle school. She used to sit with us at the lunch table but left to go sit with about 8 guys. I looked over there and she has Big Boobs and they are tickling her every boy there is like in the lower back armpits and stuff and jumps around laughing and stuff they keep doing it to her which I think they 're using her for a play toy. Then one dude pushed her boob and was putting quaters in it!! I'm like qeez. Then we were all walking back and there jumping on her tickling again then one guy goes behind her and grabs her boobs. The next day she's like come and sit with us so I said okay I didn't think there were going to do anything to me because I never talk at school I'm shy. But I have really big boobs too so. Ok I'm sitting there watching her talk and stuff then they start again and then they come over and do it with me. Tickilng me in places that make me laugh and jump. It was funny but still I didn't like it. So then he pushes my boob and I was wearing white and u could see my nipples and they pinch them. My best friend starts to laugh and I'm like okay then they tickle us agian.What should I do she asks me to sit with them again and I did. I told to them to stop with the boobs and everything but wouldn't. What should I do for my friend and I??
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uuuuuugh if you don't feel comfortable say no!! really come on girl. what kind of shirt were you wearing anyway for your nipple to be exposed with one push? self respect you know. man a guy did that to me he'd be swallowing his own teeth. alright... on a nicer level, guys shouldn't be doing that to you or her. like you said she likes it and they're using her for a play toy. don't let them do that to you too especially if you don't like it. pinch your nipple? wow you have some tolerance. do something for yourself she obviously wants to act like that. doesn't mean you have to.
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Those guys sound like rapists in training. They certainly have no respect for females, and deserve to have their asses kicked (figuratively speaking). Have some self-respect (something your friend needs to work on) and don't sit with them.
If a teacher saw what those guys were doing, they'd be suspended from school, or worse.
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Sounds like a pretty clear case of sexual assault; Steve hit the nail on the head...they have no respect for women; there is a potential for a couple of those guys to become very dangerous sex offenders in the near future.Your friend is encouraging that; unless she has specifically asked for it, they have already formed in their minds that it is okay to do this to random women without asking, and that 'no' from a woman is meaningless.I usually don't recommend this for horny teenage stupidity (first offence, at least) but: they kept sexually assaulting you even after you told them to stop; you should report this incident to the school and your parents ASAP.
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really come on girl. what kind of shirt were you wearing anyway for your nipple to be exposed with one push? self respect you know.
THIS is wut pisses me off at the forum!!!
She's coming for ADVICE on a group of asswholes sexually harrsing her (and her nieve friend) and U R jumping on HER about wut she was wearing...FUCK!!! I don't care if a girl in her bra (hell even naked!! i have no right to touch her unless she says so) I have no right to be poking and touching on her tits unless she tells me so!!!! Might I add.. When I was in 9th grade (b4 being took out to Home school) a girl grabbed my dick under the table at lunch. I was in jeans ...wut I was wearing had nothing to do wut she did. Wut she was wearing has no nothing to do with how there just asses.
to OPer > there are guys that will respect u (and ur friend) .. if i was a girl and in ur situwation i;d try my best to stay away from them. i sure as hell wouldnt; go sit with them. i'm liek really sorry to say this but ur friend might be liking this WRONG kind of attetion. You obussly don;t. i'd say tell them not to touch u and if they do get up and leave. IF they try to keep on the shit after then i;d say go turn there horny disrespetful asses in!
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holy crap girl!! i had to put up with that in my last year of high school. i believe i posted on here before about it too. (just too lazy to find it lol) anyway, the jerk kept touching me and calling me sexy and staring at my chest. he stuck a pen down my shirt to see how "deep" it would go. oh, and he grabbed my hip,pulled me closer and starting talking about "getting with me later" the fucked up thing about it was that he was 2 years younger than me! i was actually afraid to go to class because of him. he would only come around me if my boyfriend wasnt with me.i went to the counseller about it, and told the teacher that im sitting as far away from him as possible. the only thing i regret is not reporting him to the police. i was supposed to go back to the counseller and tell her to call them, but i was too fucking stupid to do it. so please, for other girls safety (and your own) PLEASE report them. they have no respect for women, they are PIGS! and NO woman should have to put up with it!!!!it just makes me sick to my fucking stomach when i think of how many times i have been harrassed online and in person. i cant count it on one hand there is so many. some guy came over to me on the beach one time and grabbed my ass and tried to ask me out. my "friend" just starting laughing at it!!! and i'd be out for a walk and these guys would drive by me and yell shit out their window! im really sick of it. online im harrassed a lot too.i hate how i never reported them to the cops, i fucking have to live with that guilt every day!! like its my god damn fault for them doing it.
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he would only come around me if my boyfriend wasnt with me.You never told your boyfriend about the guy? That's one of the benefits of having a boyfriend...to deal with stuff like that.
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Im with you on this one. She said it was a white shirt, you cuold see her nipple when it was pulled tight.
She neevr said that it popped out and was hanging in the open lunch room.
Besides all fo that, if you wear a fucking piece of dental floss over your tits and walk down the road it doesnt give anyone the right to pull that floss out of the way of the view or touch you.
Steve is right on this one, its sexual assault. Id be talking to someone if they do it again.
Id suggest your parents, parents tend to get more pissed and take more action about shit like that than anyone.
Some guy touches my kids peter, he may get in trouble and arrested when its reported but my son tells me and Ill be breaking fucking bones and kicking in doors, raising hell at the school district office and the fuck head is still going to be reported and Ill be pushing the police hourly about progress and whats going to happen. -
Thanks everyone I took your advice !! Ashely I feel ya girl i know how it feels> I told my "friend" that I wasn't going on there to sit with them anymore and I don't care if u r not my friend. So she still and went over there and sat and was laughing again. I founf other friends who doesn't do that stuff and sit with them. I was watching her today she was jumping out of her chair laughing and even one guy comes behind her nad puts his hands around her waist and grabs and squeezes her boobs. I'm like OMG!! Then the start poking her in the side and stuff I'm like what kind of person have I've been hanging out with?? U know what I mean>>
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yea i told my boyfriend about him...he didnt do anything tho.he's the silent type i guess..
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Julie used to work at a place and this Eric mother fucker woudlnt leave her alone, she told him about me and he told her it didnt mean the hole was plugged.Im not silent, I am however violent, Eric suffered substantial damages, physical and monetarily, as did his car to gurantee he would be where I wanted him, alone and outisde, when I wanted him there. Eric never bothered her again, he did however have the misfortune to bother a friend of mine and I was forced to pay him another visit. The second visit was nothing more than a warning, If you fuck someone up right the first time, you never have to touch them again to get your point across in any future meetings.If I were you and my BF didnt do anything about people harrassing me Id seriously have to think about how much he cared. Afraid of getting his ass handed to him more than he cares for you?Thats not a mate Id care to keep around.
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well see im sure he would have done something about it, its just that he never caught him alone. AND i guess he figured where i talked to someone about it, he didnt need to beat his face in. i dunno. see im more like you. if any girl was harrassing my man id seriously knock her out. im violent anyways.
i showed my bf who he was, but the guy was never alone. and he is the type who would be this "tough guy" around his friends, and then be a pussy when hes by himself. fucking prick.
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Hey guys I as caught using multiple accounts and I'm sorry cause i 'm really nervous and shy and wanted opinions on things that I see happen I school all the time!!! This right here that i wrote is true!!
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Carl Yastrzemski had number 8 on the Red Sox, so I didn't think you were he....
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you have two accounts? why?
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Cause i was nervous and everything and wanted to found out I just created 4 accounts sorry
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Getting them alone only means noone is going to pull me off and break it up before Im finished. Iv waded through people to hit someone I thought I wouldnt get the chance to have alone.I rarely get into a fight with less than 2 or 3 people.I do pretty fucking well for being 5 11, just under 160 lbs and fighting 2 or 3 people at once, I happen to be a very mother fucker.Its all about not letting common sense or fear stop you, and knowing where and how to hit someone to do maximum damage.Im not big enough to fuck around and fight and get hit too many times, I break peoples fucking boned, jaws, ribs, legs, punch them in teh adams apple, step in thier fucking neck, knee drop thier skul when they hit the ground or stomp in ther fukcing heads if they go down. It helps also to enjoy, atleast to some degree, being hit. Pain unleashes anger and adrenaline. You can hit me but it better be enough to knock me out or its only going to piss me off. If some deserving asshole is with 2 of his buddies, it wont stop me from hitting the bastard.
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that doesnt explain making 4 or whatever :S all it does is just make people think twice about taking your posts seriously. not to be rude or anything there.
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hunni, your crazy! wanna come beat the shit out of them for me?
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I know I'm really sorry