The other day when my g/f and I were fooling around together and she asked me why guys liked boobs. Why do we like boobs?Sure they are a part of our girl and we love every part of her but is there more? Soft and squeezeable, big or small, why do we like boobs?
Why do guys like breasts?
Well I think a part of it is because guys are raised to view them as sexual objects, whether it be the influence of the media or other guys. Though obviously there are other factors involved...
Like most human behaviour, we can trace it to our primal urges.A thin waist, large hips, and (usually large) breasts are code that this is a healthy, worthy mate who can bear his children and provide nutrients for them.
Originally Posted By: HelmsmaNOver time, they just sort of grow on you... True for the women at least, well said.
I have heard all of that on TLC or the Discovery channel. The media made them "sex objects", primal instincts do have something to do with it, and breasts are there for babies, we just borrow them when they're not using them.
I prefer small boobs, smaller wasit, and a small ass myself, I guess Im going against nature ?I care more about her legs than I do her boobage.I lke small perky firm boobs, and I like the ass the same way.
I think they like it becasue it's something just there and they stare at them all the time and also they are soft and a pleasure to boys..
No, not really; you don't need to be attracted to HUGE breasts etc to still be driven by primal hard-wiring.
Interesting examples of mating desire: In Zsarist Russia, the fatter a man was, the more successful and desirable as a mate he was. It was logically concluded that a fat man was well fed; therefore rich and powerful.
NO.2 Chinese foot-binding (very petite feet used to be a very key factor in mate selection and was highly sexualized)
Originally Posted By: NewToThisThe other day when my g/f and I were fooling Soft and squeezeable, big or small, why do we like boobs? Because they're soft and squeezable and big or small? I like them for what they are!It's just our brains being wired that way I guess... Hehe.. I don't even think it's because of how we're raised. I think we'd find them sexy even if no one in society would "tell" us they were. It's part of what make women different from men, and thus defines sexuality. And sexuality is pretty much the most important part of a species.
Originally Posted By: NewToThisI have heard all of that on TLC or the Discovery channel. The media made them "sex objects", primal instincts do have something to do with it, and breasts are there for babies, we just borrow them when they're not using them. haha. thats funny. for me, i like breasts of all sizes. in particular, i like the motion of them, how they bounce and the way way they look and feel. i guess its guess just my primal urges and instincts. thats just me tho. however, media has focused on the motion (baywatch) and also made fun of it (scary movie 1, at the start). personnally, i agree with marilyn manson when he said hooray for boobs. lol
Isn't it the bloodhound gang who said huray for boobies?.......It is the tital of one of thier albums
Hawker23 has said many of the things that I would have when answering your question. Kudos!
I've got a small theory about this topic.
It's widely known that men (and women) are/can-be visually stimulated. Men, by nature, can have intense primal desires. (This should be obvioius)
What a male sees can greatly effect the intensity of desire and impulse.
Let's look at a man's preference as a pie (pun intended), with many different ingredients. These ingredients are what form the male's mind and "wire" it a certain way as it develops.
Everyone's been raised differently, with their own experiences.
Likewise, people have their own hobbies, dietary habits, lifestyles, and environments.
Every aspect of a person's life plays a crucial role in their mental development, state, and upkeep ("wiring").
Let's remember how men are visually stimulated. The most visually disrupting (eye-catching/noticable) points on a woman's body are at the waist (tummy, hips, butt), and chest (breasts, outward curve at ribs).
Depending on the man's "wiring", he might find a larger or smaller visual disruption more appealing.
Since the breasts are often the most displayed points of visual disruption, men feel more comfortable liking them. Roughly, breasts are like friends you're used to being around.
"Wiring" is ultimately decided by what female figures the male was raised around. Usually: The way they treated him, the way the looked, and how he appreciates them as a person (and maybe more).
-Men are "wired" individually in their own way, based on genetics and lifestyle.
-Men are visually stimulated.
-Women have 2 main points of visual disruption; chest and waist.
-Men notice these points (intentional or otherwise)and depending on their "wiring" will take a liking, or pass.
-The personal preference is based solely on the way these points are percieved. (Once again, "wiring".)
Once one takes all of this into consideration, you can see where guys can begin to appreciate breasts.
It's not so much that they're there so much as how they're there. Like attractive patterns on a fur coat, during mating season. Different males prefer different patterns (breasts). Whether the breasts are big or small matter little compared to what the men were "wired" to favor.
Step 1 - Boy grows up around women (or not).
Step 2 - The boy learns what women look like.
Step 3 - During developement, the boy becomes more "at home" with certain features.
Step 4 - Once our little boy is a man, he sees these features and either likes them or doesn't. (Once again, visual stimulation is crucial. Because of visual stimulation, this "wiring" has taken place.)
Step 5 - The man wants to have more to do with these points of interest.
There you have it. "Guys like boobs."
I apologise for the long post, I'm really lousy when it comes to short and sweet answers. ('Almost got me into a lot of trouble one time)
I simply don't know how/when to shut up.. See?
Originally Posted By: Hawker23Like most human behaviour, we can trace it to our primal urges.A thin waist, large hips, and (usually large) breasts are code that this is a healthy, worthy mate who can bear his children and provide nutrients for them. QFT, just like woman go for older men because the instinct is that older men arem ore experience, and men go for younger woman because they have a better chance of surving and taking care of the baby, like monkeys
in short, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
i am a 15 year old boy, and yes men are very attracted to breast but i wouldnt stress about size bc personally i love them all
Well, since you ladies cover them up most of the time, it is like seeing something amazing. Ever since Eve put on those clothes...lol
Mix of things. A. primal instint. boys are brought closer to their moms when they are little threw breast naturally... So whatever the size/shape all men want at least a little somethin somethin..B. Media. the are glamorized and its so driven into the mail brain that they are attractive.. they actually become attractive. Its actually a marketing stragity.. the ONLY reason anything is worth money is because there is a consensus that it is worth something.example for media issue. Xbox 360 is worth 400 dollars (guessing) because thats what people are willing to pay for it.. when it came out.. it was being resold for 2 thousand dollars or so. why? because people thought it was worth that much. 3. They are covered.. they are "hot" cause of the marketing.. and they are natural.. so when you cover em up.. it raises the drive even more.. and raises the "market value" if you will. I mean how many times do you see boobs on tv but, the nipple is covered? even on local cable with no porn channels they block out just the nipple and you want to see it.. the whole percieved hotness goes way up.
Guys like our naughty places because they dont have them, and we like theirs for the same reason.
Yea. It was Bloodhoung Gang. I