ORGASM???

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hey everyone...iv got 2 questions for the gyes out there. #1) ok my bf and i were talking and he said that he never orgasms when he masterbates or when i give him a hand job...that he has only ever had an orgasm when i give him oral or when we have sex....he said that it feels good when i give him a hand job and it feels good when he masterbates...but he just ejaculates and theres not really an orgasm attached to it....is that how it is for most gyes? do you not orgasm from hand action?...now onto my second question #2)my bfs orgasms seem to really vary in intesity....like some will be kinda weak, then others will be like earth shatering to where he said he can feel it pretty much throughout his entire body...do most gyes orgasms vary so much?...is it pretty much the luck of the draw to which one you will get or is there something that can be done to make ur orgasme lean more tward the earth shatering side of things?....thanks

Orgasm strength varies from orgasm to orgasm in both men and women. Not so unusual. As far as earth shattering, maybe, the amount of time it takes to get there is a factor. But I haven't found a way to make it like that EVERYTIME..Sex isn't and shouldn't be all about the orgasm, though that is awesome, the closeness, and the fun of it is also important.

Usually for guys, the ejaculation comes with the orgasm (pun intended) But the intensity of the orgasm does vary. The 'earth shattering' ones seem to be brought on according to how long it takes, intensity, mood etc etc.

#1) I always thought that when you orgasm you ejaculate, and you can't have one really without the other. Perhaps I'm wrong. #2) Mine are usually fairly similar. When I used to smoke ganja I'd often whack off high. Those orgasms were through the roof, full body. I miss those hehe. But normally they don't vary much. I find if I continue the stimulation through the orgasm they're better than if I stop during the orgasm.

Originally Posted By: Curious2006hey everyone...iv got 2 questions for the gyes out there. #1) ok my bf and i were talking and he said that he never orgasms when he masterbates or when i give him a hand job...that he has only ever had an orgasm when i give him oral or when we have sex....he said that it feels good when i give him a hand job and it feels good when he masterbates...but he just ejaculates and theres not really an orgasm attached to it....is that how it is for most gyes? do you not orgasm from hand action?...now onto my second question #2)my bfs orgasms seem to really vary in intesity....like some will be kinda weak, then others will be like earth shatering to where he said he can feel it pretty much throughout his entire body...do most gyes orgasms vary so much?...is it pretty much the luck of the draw to which one you will get or is there something that can be done to make ur orgasme lean more tward the earth shatering side of things?....thanks again, i always thought orgasms came along with ejaculation. for me, it appears to. sometimes, weak. altho, i think i've unlocked a secret how to make it mind blowing. this may be revelant to your boyfriend, curious. for me, when i wank, whenever i stop and concentrate on the thoughts i use to make me cum (of my girlfriend, incase anyone thinks anythin bad of me) and then start again. the thoughts of her stimulate me enough to keep me arouse and very hard so that when i do start again, i haven't really gotten any less stimulated so when i get very close, i stop again. i do this 3 or 4 times and i could shout the house down at that point! that works for me. lol, i can imagine 1000's of guys tryin this now (not gettin any images, just ppl on the computer goin, "damn, i must try that" lol) thats my piece

i found that oral or vaginal sex are more intense. if you have sex randomly it probably will not be an excellent orgasm but if everybodys in the mood and really horny then it really helps. sex should be fun, not forced.

thanks all, the info is much apreseated....so no one else has ever ejaculated w/o an orgasm b4?....cuz sometimes that will even happen to by b4 even when we have sex...it seems to happen when he dosent jack off and we dont have sex for a wile....then he said it tends to be more of a presure release and not really an orgasm...ne1 else have this experience?

Originally Posted By: Curious2006 #1) ok my bf and i were talking and he said that he never orgasms when he masterbates or when i give him a hand job...that he has only ever had an orgasm when i give him oral or when we have sex... Maybe he just would rather have sex or get a blowjob? i know i would but maybe its just his way, and it does feel much better to have sex then to just get a handjob