turns out i "used her"well atleast thats what she's spreading around skool. and now her ex girlfriend (yeah she's bi) wants to fight me. lol. i dont wanna have to beat up no chicks wat should i do.
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Ok so i posted about sex with that chick
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How much of a fighter is the ex-gf? You should avoid fighting with her if you possibly can, and if you can't avoid her fighting you you should, if at all possible, only block the blows and not hit back. Even under the strongest provocation you'll get no respect for fighting back, I'm afraid.
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ha dude i know this and so does she. KJDKLAJDLKJAD
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Get one of ur other girl friends to say something to her.. ive kind of dealed with that before... there just talking shit dude... yah and alot of chicks say that bullshit like getting used... was she drunk when u fucked her?
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yeah but not b4 when she told me we would
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fuck that, knock that bitch out and tell her to stay away from your girl.
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thing is.. aint my girl.
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Originally Posted By: qazqazfuck that, knock that bitch out and tell her to stay away from your girl. Did you even read the paragraph you moron? shes not his girl, this si why shes spreading "rumour's". And never ever hit a girl.Technically you did use her you had sex with her when she was Drunk, thats taking advantage of her. The only thing you can do now is ignore it, she wont fight you shell just talk shit, and if she does just take the punches.
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its not the one i fucked that wants to fight me... its her ex dikin girlfriend. and dude I DID NOT USE HER! she told me she wanted to fuck me BEFORE DRINKING!!!
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Technically, you did take advantage of her. According to the law (as I learned in some RA class I took in school), people can't give consent if they are under the influnence.
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But apparently she gave consent before they started drinking, does getting drunk wipe that from the record? Cause technically, that would mean that its against the law to have drunk sex, and that would make America a very sad sad place to live...
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It's against the law to have sex with someone so heavily under the influence because they can't consent. This backs up what I was taught.
It's only a violation when the person is "out of it."
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It's actually against the law to have sexual contact with a person who is incapacitated due to the use of drugs, alcohol, or prescription medications. Incapacitated is another way to say "really out of it", as in a situation where someone has passed out, or is just too drunk or high to think clearly. Making the choice to use alcohol or other drugs does not mean that you forfeit the sexual decision-making rights to your body.
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In this situation I think it best to discuss what has happened with the girl. By letting them spread rumors and having the girl talk about beating you up is only going to exacerbate the problem. If you talk to her and possibly apologise for what has happened then the issue could go away without incident. Try to tell her why you dont think you used her and why you feel you had conscent.
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well dude, to be honest if she says you 'used' her, it probably means she expected you to ask her out soon after, and im guessing you didnt. i suggest talkin it out with the girl you fucked, asking her to cool down, explain that you liked her and your sorry, you just got a little scared...hell maybe that isnt the truth but its the best thing to say if you dont want any more trouble. and as for this ex gf, tell her to mind her own business- if she insists on fighting you, well, dont hit girls. just walk away from it, and if shes absolutely batshit and is throwing serious punches at you, hold her forearms and push her away til shes at arms length- and tell her to calm down- looks better than hitting the bitch and feels better than getting smacked around.kinda screwy how if a girl hits you, its like 'haha you got beat up by a girl' when i hear people say that its like, so what asshole? What was i supposed to do fight her? Wouldnt that make me a woman beater? Oh well. good luck anyway.
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I dont think he likes her, I've been reading more about this guy and I'm actually going to side with the girl, this guy seems like a jerk and cares nothing for her feelings. He took advantage of her even if she said before she was under the influence, its a law. So... I actually can't sympahtize for this guy, he got himself into it, and he's lucky she isnt pregnant.
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Well thats wonderful, nice to know that.
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I'm sceptical, CBW, when someone says "it's against the law" without saying at least in which jurisdiction. In the US this would be expected to be state law, and therefore different in each state. There are many things that are of course illegal everywhere, but I'm doubtful about this one.I've seen "it's against the law" statements in advice columns that I've known to be untrue.
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To further support what I said, this is what the U.S. DOJ said:
In general, state law assumes that a person does not consent to sexual activity if he or she is forced, threatened, unconscious, drugged, a minor, developmentally disabled, chronically mentally ill, or believe they are undergoing a medical procedure.
General Sexual Assault in the U.S.
Here's more information from the Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network:
More often, however, sexual assault involves psychological coercion and taking advantage of an individual who is under duress or incapacitated and, therefore, incapable of making a decision on his/her own (including under the influence of alcohol, drugs and/or prescription medications).
While the last reference I gave didn't explicitly say that it's against the law, the general consensus in the states that it's "unlawful" to take advantage of someone who's heavily under the influence.
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haha today the dike ex of the chick i fucked asked my sister " wheres ur bro" and kept repeatin. i wasnt on the bus cuz i had soccer but ill be there tomorrow. i wonder wat happens :-\
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Move on with your life. Or you will get your ass kicked.
