hello, i am 14... and i have been sexually active for a while.. ( please dont give me your opinions on young sex ) well anyway.. i have has sex many times... but never with a virgin.. well i have been going out with a girl for quit some time now.. and we have been discussing having sex for quit some time also.. it was actually her idea... i am all for it.. and we plan to on the 14th of july.. when she is back from vacation.. my question is .. What should i expect.. on our first time.. i have neevr been with a virgin.. but i have heard it is painful for girls on there first time.. is it like massive pain.. do they get any joy?
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Question to non virgin girls... from a guy
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for some girls it hurts more than others..you should probably try to be easy once you pop it in the first..and second time. it sort of feels like ripping your skin.i thought it would hurt alot worse than it did. unless shes really loose then i doubt she'll get an orgasm until later on..you may never be able to get her to orgasm from just sex. some girls never do. ask her once you're in if its hurting her too bad.or you could also try to let her put it in the first time because she knows exactly where it goes and you could hurt her if you just poke around for the hole like you might of done with the other girlfriends.
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be sure and take your sweet time getting her aroused! lots of kissing, fondling, fingering. be gentle, and bring some *lube*. KY liquid, Astroglide...those are easily found at the drugstore next to the condoms. Lube will go a LONG way in minimizing any discomfort for her. And go slow when you are entering. Ask if she's ok. Don't get pumping hard and fast, slow an easy!
BTW, I don't remember any pain at all my first time. Depends on the girl and the situation I guess.
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dude.. i can hide some condoms. but.. a bottle of lube i unno.. cant i just buy a lubricated condom.. always worked beforel...
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for me it was massive pain! lol but i was supprised when only a dot of blood came out on my panties but anyways make sure u finger her really good and with two fingers and make sure shes relaxd tell her not to tense up cuz that will just make it hurt worse but maybe mine was massive pain cuz i did it with a massive guy....hm but yeah take itl ike a inch at a time and slow and i dunno i didnt get any joy really out of it....but the 2nd time i did heh best was 4th though lol yeah an extra lub condom would be good and make sure you get her all wet like fool around and stuff lol
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no, I didn't feel any pain my first time either... the only "pain" I get is after sex... but that's because you use a lot of muscles during. So really, my only pain is from muscles being used/ streched.
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Ok, i am a guy 16 y/o.The first time i had sex with my girlfriend (both virgins)She wanted to take it slow, so we decided that i would lay down and she would basically si, so she could control how fast or slow and wheer she wanted everything. She told me it felt great, she was afraid that i would just want to ram it in her, so i let her control it . Anywayz, ALL im really saying, is let her control everything bud.
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Yeah, Ive heard it's sort of a mixed emotion thing. I mean, it's almost like, if you're a guy, getting your first tatoo, it might hurt like hell, but in the end, you realize it was worth the pain and you feel sort of over-excited.
