Here's the deal, when i masturbate, i can make myself cum very fast if i want to, around 20 seconds. (i can make it last MUCH longer if i want based on how i do it.) however, this weekend im going to a big house party for my 16th birthday and this girl ive been talking to has promised me a bj. i REALLY dont want to come fast and embarass myself. whats a normal length for a bj and is there something i can do to increase my stamina before i cum?
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Do I have a problem?
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well, you can always jerk off right before.Other then that, just practicing.Tell her to ease off a bit when you get too close.
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Unless she's really good I doubt you will come really fast. Being given head is a different feeling that masturbating. A lot of guys actually have trouble achieving an orgasm, not to mention she's never given you head before so she will still need to learn what feels good to you. You may also be nervous which could make you last longer etc. Even if you did end up cumming quickly, I think it would be flattering to her. EDIT: I agree, jack off before you are with her.
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i guess ill go with jerking off before i get head. but dunno how else i could practice for it heh. i jerk off religiously and that doesn't really seem to affect my stamina too much.
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Originally Posted By: moonlight
Unless she's really good I doubt you will come really fast. Being given head is a different feeling that masturbating. A lot of guys actually have trouble achieving an orgasm, not to mention she's never given you head before so she will still need to learn what feels good to you. You may also be nervous which could make you last longer etc. Even if you did end up cumming quickly, I think it would be flattering to her.
EDIT: I agree, jack off before you are with her. **I think you said it perfectly. The feeling is SOO completely different. I know that sometimes when my girl gives me a BJ I have to enjoy it a long time before I can orgasm, just because BJ's stimulate the head a lot more, and then masterbating just rubs the shaft like crazy. If you are rough, you might be insensitive to the gentleness of the mouth when it comes around. (no pun intended) But I wouldn't worry about cumming too soon honestly, just go with it, dont change your daily routines or anything regarding masterbating, and have fun with it =D
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"this weekend im going to a big house party for my 16th birthday and this girl ive been talking to has promised me a bj."I have 2 questions for you, [because i'm the inquisitive sort]1) Is this one ended? and why?2) Why at a party?i know i might act like a party pooper but there are some western practices i dont understand
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"Is this one ended? and why?"I'm assuming you mean do you need to reciprocate the favor in anyway. Your probably not going to like the open ended answer I'm going to give but you but here it is. It depends on the girl. Some will be fine with just sucking you off and only getting a kiss in return. They may not want to be touched or get oral or anything. Some will expect you to do something to get them off. It just depends.The only thing I will say to you is that it would be best to make the offer to reciprocate the favor, she'll let you know if she wants it or not. To that point I would think it awfully rude if you did a least make the offer (not necessarily verbally you understand) to get her to climax.>>>"Why at a party?"Surely she means that you all can meet up there and that's it. Then again there are some freaky chicks out there, maybe she's gonna have all the guys line up and work her way down the row or maybe she wants everybody to watch it... not really. More than likely, she thinks that'll be the only place that you can maybe find a discreet place to hook-up.>>>"there are some western practices i don't understand."Me too.