Sex

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Ok guys, this might be a little different but I want sex really bad. I don't find anything wrong with it and I desire sex so much. I was just wandering if somebody can give me some tips to obtain sex. Im not a bad looking guy or anything...

Well thats lovely, most of us are looking for sex, it all depends on what kind you want.Are you looking for meaningful sex or do you just want to put your cock inside someone? How old are you? Are you a virgin?If you're not a virgin, you're of age, and are just looking for a shag no matter what, try looking into the escort ads.

I am 16, Im a virgin and sure I wanna put my cock inside someone but still I want it to be meaningful. I'm not the kind of person to run around bangin everyone.

well first you need a partner.. so maybe try asking someone you like out to a date?

yeah, dateing would b a good place to start...but dont just go into a relationship with the expectaion of getting sex....or with the idea that you can put it on the fast track just cuz u want sex...seriously girls can sence it, if ur goal is to get into a girls pants and it is obvious that it is your goal...then she will b able to tell...and will prolly thik ur scum and leave u....seriously....when i started dateing my bf i was on the look out for any sign that he just wanted to get in my pants...and if he tryed to rush things i wudda left him or in the very best case situation he wouldof had to wait alot longer and work 10X as hard to convince me that he loved me for me and that he wasnt just in the relationship for a fuck buddy so to speak and as far as u wanting sex, its a perfectly normal thing to want. and everyone craves it from time to time...you just have to weigh that desire against everything else to deside the right coarse of action.

When I have been looking for it no one ever comes along, but as soon as you get pissed off and give up all of a sudden you have a choice. I don't know why that happens to me and whether that happens to others.Ok basically you should be nice and sincere to whoever you like and try not to think of sex as it will get in the way and that will come across to the other person and can be a put off. Just try and like the person as a person not as a sex object and that will come across and that person may like you then.............before you know it your having sex and you were not even thinking about it sooo much. That is the way i would approach it, ok you still get the urges but don't think of it as just needing SEX. That's the only thing i can suggest.

A sixteen year old boy wanting sex really bad... Sorry to tell you that is no way different, even a little.It's normal, for every sixteen year old boy whether their getting sex or not, your hormones are raging. All you can do is get down to some serious whackage and wait for it to happen.

Yeah or he can do something about it, and get in a relationship.

Sadly thats how a lot of young males think nowadays, If she isn't "Putting Out" as some say, many guys just dump them in favor of the village Bicycle. 90 Percent of the guys i went to high school with were just like this.

It's an interesting commentary that there are more idiots than bicycles.That's either a good thing or sad thing, I guess, depending on whether your getting any or not.

ok thanks guys, the other night I was in gulf shores and I was in the hot tub with this other girl. I could tell she was in to me and of course I really wanted to go do her. But you know this was the first time we had met and I'm not the kind of person to meet and have sex immediatly. I would have to get to know the person. I;m just saying I really wanted to at that time, but thanks to all the insight fellas

Sex is defiantly overrated

sure it is but how are you gonna get a 15 yr old male to believe that?

I'll give it a go...When you have sex, you will not enjoy it. It will be awkward and no matter how much you read up on it, you won't have a clue about what you're doing. You will try one or two moves that you saw in a porno and you will fail miserably. She will not enjoy it, she may well have a look of intense pain on her face for the whole ordeal. You will be finished very quickly but it won't feel too great. She will lie to you and say that she enjoyed it, but believe me when I say that she will be lying. You will be crap, you will know this. You'll want a second chance just to show that you can be better, but she won't. And this is all presuming that you'll be capable of putting on the condom!Just go wank. It'll last longer and feel better, and you can have sex with whomever your mind can conjure! And you'll be great at it!I personally think that the whole message of finding someone special to have sex with has been mixed up. I don't think that the special someone is your one true love or the person you will be in a long, loving relationship with. Finding someone special is about finding someone that you are connected with to the point where your relationship can survive the torturous embarrassment of loosing your virginity. Someone who will look at you after your 30 seconds of huffing and puffing, and will still want to be with you.