well i finally stopped lying to myself thinking he had never done me wrong. but now he just keeps acting like we're together, i mean we was together for over a year and it is a hard situation for me too but i want to get over this but he's making it so much harder than it should be. he won't change his myspace to single or his pics of us, he still call's and texts me during the day.. i mean if were broke up isn't something supposed to be different? he keeps telling me im making a mistake and he has never done me wrong.. but i'm following my heart b/c for a month and a half i cried myself to sleep knowin somethin wasn't right and him hiding things, and lying. I know ya'll prob hate me posting so much about him but this is what i need advice about. i mean what should i do?
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I broke up with him but i think he is in denial
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Sometimes, you have to get mean if you really want out. It hurts you more, because we always want it to be nice. Don't answer his calls, don't answer his texts, and ignore the stuff on myspace. Delete yourself from his friend list, and try to get on with it. If that doesn't work, tell him to leave you alone or you will turn his butt in for harassment, and get a restraining order. It worked for me last year when I had to break up with clingy guy.
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I once had a girl dump me by leaving a note in my apartment.I harrased hera bit. I only asked one thing of her for me to leave her alone.Have the fucking guts to look me in the eyes and tell me its over.After she did that, I left her alone. Maybe his clingy shit is because of how she dumped him.I figure if Im worth dating to begin with and never did shit to you, that if its over you owe me a face to face good bye, not some chickenshit note in an empty room and your key on the table.She told me she wanted tomake it easier so she left a note, easier for who? for her. If you take part of my life you owe me the decency to tell me and face me when you diecide you dont want it anymore.My whole issue wasnt with her leaving and shitting on me.It was the way it was handled. I belive I was owed the respect that comes with a face to face, in person good bye.After I got that I never bothered her again. I told her from the first time I started bothering her as sson as she did that Id leave her alone, she just wasnt getting off the hook that easy witha fucking note.Now if the guy is abusive and shit like that, I think a note or just disapearing is a good way to go.I wasnt happy about it ending, but I dont belive in unrequited love. IT takes two people and if only one is in it its not worth being in. I knew it was over, I wasnt happy but I was aware. I just wanted it ended right, I figure I was owed that. a couple years later I ran into her at a party I was at, I knocked the fuck out of her BF. Everyone assumed it was because he showed up with her, funny thing was its because I walked outside to smoke and he was pissing in my car through the t tops.Had nothing to do with her on my end, it was him that couldnt handle me being there. Honestly though, it did feel good to fuck him up.I realize this is all off base for the original post to this thread, but I wanted to get my two cents in that if yuor going to dump someone then do it right, face to face, lay it out and end it posatively. Iv done ita few hundred times with girls, I think Im owed that same amount of respect by one of them dumping me.
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Yeah, well whether she did it right at first or not, she is going to have to confront him "properly" and make it clear that it is over...otherwise, the idea of turning him in will never fly...I think you were one of the ones on board last year when I was dealing with the stupid harassment issues...Thank GOD! And now, the fat bastard, found a mentally ill chick, with 3 mentally ill children, and is getting married in June... YAY him! (and me, cause he even quit the shit on this board!) knocks on wooden headAnd I have my red head....yummy!