so last night my boyfriend was fingering me but he was a bit rough and today i realise his nail must have scratched me quite badly cos theres a bit of skin missing just under my vagina that is stinging quite a lot, especially when i go to the toilet. basically is there anything i can put on it to stop it stinging?? would it be wise to put like petrolium jelly on it or something just to stop it stinging when i go to the toilet or would that not help it heal?
-
Scratches during fingering
-
thank you =)
-
Tell him to cut his fucking nails or youll shit on him in his sleep I dont just get even, I like to be ahead.
-
Amy, having him finger you is a fine way to enjoy yourselves, but you need to provide your bf with a little direction, yes, he has to cut his nails, but, also, you need to tell him that rough does not cut it, be sure to tell him in a positive way, though.Focus on what you DO like, be sure to compliment him when he does it right, and you will get him tuned in to your body and how to please it. Unfortunately, most men think that if slow is good, fast is better, if light is good, hard is better, and you need to tell him NOW that he needs your feedback at all times. It's hard breaking in a guy right.