My boyfriend and I lost our virginity to each other the other day and it was surprisingly difficult, just figuring out how to go in. Once we got started it was fine (but not as good as either of us wanted), but it felt like too much work and both of us are worried. Any information or just a flat out explination of how to do it. We are both relatively sexually inexperienced, but we are completely in love and mean the world to each other so we want to get this to work. Also it hurt me a lot and I have been spotting since then. Please help!
The first time, and several times after are always akward. You're not alone. It just takes practice to get the hang of it. Spotting is normal too.
basically: guide him in (you need to work out wheer it is beforehand) then wrap ur legs around him and RELAX, if u dont relax it hurts and if it hurts it will give you bad memories. just chill out, sex isnt supposed to be serious anyway, we all look like dicks trying to do these stupid positions...