Im a 14 year old girl, homeschooled ... most girls my age end up with crushes on boys they know or celebreties ... but I never feel even vaguely attracted to anyone like that ...Is something wrong with me or am I just different?
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Crushes?
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Because your homeschooled (oh boooooy am I gonna get flamed for this) you might not be maturing at the same rate as the schooled girls, (same goes with schooled people, but my homeschooled friends tend to be...less socially mature I guess is the right way to put it). Give it time, you're entiery normal and (this is the second time I've posted this), it might be because boys aren't necesarily what you're attracted to. (going to get flamed for that as well)But you're still really young and have a lot of time to sort of figure all this stuff out, and there isn't much sense to worry about it now.
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No, there's no reason to suppose anything is wrong. It will probably happen within the next year or so.
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i feel you girl. you are certainly not aloneboys are whack anyway forget them. lol jk but um... you don't need a guy right now so don't even worry about it. your time will come
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Forget about boys? Abi, have you forgotten about me??
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I wouldnt say its there is anything wrong with you.Personally i am the same, there may be loadsa hot women in magazines, on TV, movies, etc.These people are unobtainable, you will never meet them or know them, they may look nice but that doesent mean shit.I used to get crushes on girls i went to school with, walking past them in the corridors, a little half smile knowing that there MIGHT be a slight chance that one day i would pull myself togeather and find the courage to ask her out and have the most amazing experiances with her.I have zero interest in things i cannot have its irrational and a little screwed up, but arent all teenagers You get to a stage when you dont really care for crushes as with most things in life you only have the one chance to make the right impression, screw it up and its gone. Life moves to fast to dwell on missed oppertunities but make sure your ready for the next oppertunity that comes along!Hope it helps!
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Originally Posted By: RaspberryTueBecause your homeschooled (oh boooooy am I gonna get flamed for this) you might not be maturing at the same rate as the schooled girls, (same goes with schooled people, but my homeschooled friends tend to be...less socially mature I guess is the right way to put it). Give it time, you're entiery normal and (this is the second time I've posted this), it might be because boys aren't necesarily what you're attracted to. (going to get flamed for that as well)But you're still really young and have a lot of time to sort of figure all this stuff out, and there isn't much sense to worry about it now. I'm not into flaming people, lol.Most people say my attitude is more mature but I think you're right.As for the 'perhaps boys aren't what you are attracted to' bit ... I hope not 'coz if I'm sure of anything I'm sure I want kids >one dayWould hate to be unable Originally Posted By: MaxI wouldnt say its there is anything wrong with you.Personally i am the same, there may be loadsa hot women in magazines, on TV, movies, etc.These people are unobtainable, you will never meet them or know them, they may look nice but that doesent mean shit.I used to get crushes on girls i went to school with, walking past them in the corridors, a little half smile knowing that there MIGHT be a slight chance that one day i would pull myself togeather and find the courage to ask her out and have the most amazing experiances with her.I have zero interest in things i cannot have its irrational and a little screwed up, but arent all teenagers You get to a stage when you dont really care for crushes as with most things in life you only have the one chance to make the right impression, screw it up and its gone. Life moves to fast to dwell on missed oppertunities but make sure your ready for the next oppertunity that comes along!Hope it helps! The only thing I can say to that is ... wow o.oThanks guys, you made me feel much, much better.
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lol You can still have kids, adopt or go to a bank.
