My guy friend/boyfriend (not official yet)Wants to, and is asking me if i'd ever want to.I do, but i dont know what the hell you do when you have it, besides touch yourself or something?
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Phone sex?
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my fella wanted to do it when when we lived in Israel and he had to travel for business, and he'd always worry that it'd be doing the dishes or something.
Anyway! I don't... see the point unless you're incapable of being in person, but you basically just say what you want to do to one another, make little moans that make em happy, stuff like that.
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Phone sex (good phone sex) is a naughty world of fantasy that is a great pre-cursor to physical contact. You don't have to be a great distance apart to enjoy it; it's a great, non-threatening way to discover what your partner enjoys, what his fantasies are etc. (and a chance to bring up some of that info when you have sex with him for real)
With good phone sex, you have to tap into the story-teller part of your mind. Imagine the fantasy scene you've always dreamed of, and describe every detail of it...the light, the smells, the sounds(music) what you're wearing...how the bed sheets feel against your naked flesh...imagine staring at his erect, wanting penis; his raw, animal lust for your vagina.
Tell him how much you want to grab it firmly in your hands, and describe how good his penis would feel in your mouth [insert obligatory moan or other sexual sound here]. If he's a smart lad, he'll play along and describe in equally intimate detail his adventures of exploring your body, how wet and hot you are, how you smell and taste; what he would do with his tongue and your vagina. Feel free to put the phone near your vagina and let him HEAR how wet you are...he'll love that.
It won't be perfect, but if you describe what you see in your head...what you desire and lust for, you'll both have a great time getting off. (Don't give a fake moan when you cum...just try to let yourself go; if he's open to it, he should probably let out a grunt or moan when he pops, for your enjoyment)
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The problem with phone sex before real contact, is you might end up expecting something you're not going to get. Get all excited for this fantasy sex, and it doesn't happen. That's why Great amazing sex before phone sex ends in a happier, non disappointed couple.
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sounds a little kinky for my taste
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What do you think about when you masturbate, just say it out loud and plus you will have someone else help in the conversation. Once you start you will get the hang of it. Good luck.