Alright so here's the scoop:I have feelings for this really great guy I've known for 5 or 6 months. He's smart, funny, unique, and just overall different and we get along great!We've been flirting with each other for a while now and I just recently learned that he has been in a relationship for about 3 months (And I have recently gotten out of a bad one). According to some of his close friends and co-workers, she's controlling, pushy, and fake and he is only with her to get back at me. I'm not one to go with rumors but my sources are reliable. I want to know if I should go through with my plan of telling him how I feel or should I just keep it to myself.
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Decisions, decisions...
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Welcome to A2A, Aeralix!My feeling is that people in relationships should be considered as unavailable, at least for the present, whatever the reason for the relationship.
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I always believe that if two people are attracted to each other, it's because of who they and nothing can be done about that, after all we are only mammals. Society these days deems it wrong to split up other people just because of your 'selfish' actions, but in reality, if you like somene more that you like someone else then surely you should choose the one you like more. It'll him making this choice, but it's just whether you can get past the idea of you breaking people up, because after all, she will have feelings aswell. Just kiss him and toss him off of something.Im startin to get the hang of this constructive commenting lark....Might have a wank now.
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I totally agree! I've been thinking whether or not I should kiss him. Even though he's still in this relationship, things haven't changed between us and I rarely hear him talk about his girlfriend which I find a little odd.
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Bottom line, He's with someone. Don't go wrecking someone elses relationship, no matter what you think about it.
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WOW, so you think it might be ok to break them up?So lets say you get this guy. How are you gonna feel in a few months when someone comes along and takes him from you. Remember, Karma is the Nicest Bitch you will ever meet...
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Remember, Karma is the Nicest Bitch you will ever meet...
LOL, that's for sure, because I would totally kick this girls ass if that were my boyfriend.
It's one thing to be attracted to him, but to actually want to kiss him....that's fucked up.
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Originally Posted By: PepsiChser
Remember, Karma is the Nicest Bitch you will ever meet...
Not only is that unbelievably true, but it should also be a bumper sticker :P
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Lish, I am SO with you. But hey, if she tries it and he kisses her back he is a lowlife cheating scumbag, and maybe they were meant for each other... Java, I need to go have one made, I LOVE that saying. Along with "Stupid SHOULD hurt", but I have seen the latter as a sticker already.I have been down the road of indiscretion, and it isn't a cool thing at all.
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But hey, if she tries it and he kisses her back he is a lowlife cheating scumbag, and maybe they were meant for each other...
Agreed!
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exactly, and if the relationship ends, it's his fault, not yours....It's his choice whether he wants to kiss you back not yours. he's the one in the relationship.Ive said it once and ill say it again, just toss him off, that all you'll need.
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Well on the relation ship thing. I’d say wait till he isn’t in a relationship and then tell him.About the rumors .. Even if there from a reliable sources that source/ sources could have got it from unreliable ones. My ex was controlling, pushy but she never showed that at first. It came latter on. me and my gf got into a big fight last summer cuz of her. Luckily we don’t see her but a few weekends out of the summer. I’m not saying Lindsey is mean or anything. She’s just very touchy and flirty with me and …..well Shannon don’t like her.
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I didn't even bring that point to my attention. I just wanted to believe everything they were saying because I wanted it to be true. I am hopeless sometimes and I'm not going to go through with it. I've come to my senses.