Have you ever let your hornyness take over you?

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And after words you regret it, and say ew, but then you do it again?

Took me a while to realise what you were saying there. You mean "afterwards" and not "after words" right?In which case, no. I have plenty of self-control, which is remarkable considering I am a 23 year old virgin.

While it's important that you don't let your horniness ride over everything - that's how rapes happen - I think it's also important to be able to accept your horniness, and not consider it something to be utterly suppressed.It's quite normal after masturbation to think "why did I do that?", because your mood changes after orgasm. It doesn't mean your mood before was invalid.

Are you talking about horniness being a problem for you, or for someone else? To answer your question, yes, when I was young and inexperienced, I did push things with girls because I didn't have the ability to know what she was looking for or understand the signals I was being given. I never raped a woman or a girl....hell, at that point had I managed to get it out of my pants I would have come because of a stiff breeze coming from the window. If you're asking because you feel you went a bit further than was wanted, it's up to you what to do....apologize if that's appropriate and say it won't happen again, or cnfess to the police if it went that far. Either way, you should probably make amends....to yourself and to her.

Best I can do. Luck!

Quote:Have you ever let your hornyness take over you? And after words you regret it, and say ew, but then you do it again? Do u mean like jacking off or pressuring a girl? Or is it a question that is for either?

Sure, most people probably have at some time or other to varying degrees. Many times in my life I have thought why did I wack off to that image... that was sick. Also, there have been other times and other things I won't elaborate on but those kind of sexual regrets and second thoughts are rather normal through life, at least I think it's that way for most people, again to varying degrees.The thing to focus on is whether or not what you engaged in was, or is, destructive to yourself or someone else. Not knowing what was done, if it was an act of simple experimentation it's probably nothing to worry about and your angst may have more to do with social hang ups than any real injury. If it was a hurtful, caustic act that has negative effects on you or someone else it's time to get things in check and take control of your libido. If you can't do that alone look into support groups in your area.

Originally Posted By: IneligibleIt's quite normal after masturbation to think "why did I do that?", because your mood changes after orgasm. Especially true with men. Girls want to cuddle, and I'll do it because I care about her. But the whole time I'm cuddling I'm thinking about how I need to get out to the car and change the oil, or something like that.

i fall asleep after. i mean we cuddle but i still fall alseep on her. she don't seem to mind.

and yea i have let my horneyness take over. (not talking bout jerkign off either) i'm a dirty basterd :frowning:

Hon letting your hornyness take over ya sometimes doesn't mean you're a dirty bastard!and im the one who falls asleep on him afterwards lol

Quote: im the one who falls asleep on him afterwards i like it when she falls asleep on me. i just smell her ..and her hair. she smells so good. even when were just sitting and watching movies or tv or somthing and her head is on me... dang she smells yummy! why did i just admit that