okay, so..i have been dating this guy for a while and i feel really comfortable and close with him. We do not plan on having sex for a while, but, even when i am feeling very aroused, it doesn't feel good when he is fingering me..and we've tried several different things...it is also very hard for me to have an orgasm on my own...is there anything i can do to make it easier?
I can't orgasm...
Maybe you are afraid of sex. You are a girl and I don't know what to do to increase the orgasm of a female.....apart from making love to her. But you said you are not willing so this is a different situation. I know the solution for the guys; they use a particular syringe called Caverject but for the girls....I really don't know.