Is there any way of telling when you contract gonorrhea?? I've been dating a guy on and off for a couple of months. Last month we decided to take a break. Two weeks later I had a one night stand w/ an old ex boyfriend. One week later I wind up in the doctors office and they tell me I have gonnorhea. I'm obviously devestated but even worse I'm not sure which guy I could have gotten it from. I'm not sure if I got it 6 weeks ago from the guy I was seeing or 3 weeks ago from that night w/ my ex boyfriend. Help is there any way to tell???