Hurts..

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I've been masterbating for quite a while now using my clit, but I want to try going for my gspot ... problem is as soon as i put a finger in i feel a lot of discomfort and pain.Is this because I am a virgin? How can I do this?p.s. excuse typos and lack of capitals, please, im writing from my handheld and the keyboard stinks.

Slowly insert a finger before trying to stimulate the G. It's actually pretty hard to stimulate your own G, so I don't know. Then again I'm not a girl so whadda I know?

Stimulating your own G spot is pretty tough. You can, but it isn't the most comfortable thing.As far as the pain, it probably does hurt because your a virgin. Try to insert one, then two and then three fingers. Also, lube helps. Try getting yourself really wet before you try it.

*sung to the tune of ten lil indiansone, lil two, lil three lil fingers...

LMAO! Funny how things will strike a person!

It might be that you're fingers are hitting you're hymen. http://www.afraidtoask.com/woman/index.htmlI have three pieces of advise/warning:1. As it says on the page I pasted above, there can be blood when the hymen is "broken". It is not bad, it is normal. Just don't stain anything.2. It can also hurt. Some people say it hurts a lot, some say it doesn't hurt at all. I would advise not looking into the pain aspect, people tend to be over dramatic.3. Stimulating the g-spot can cause female ejaculation. It's very good (in my opinion), but can be very messy. Some girls just ooze a thick milky liquid. Some girls squirt a thin clear liquid (not urine, it comes from the real vaginal opening, not the urethra http://www.vaginainstitute.com/vagina/Anatomy/anatomy_external/anatomy_external.shtml) quite some distance. It can cause some girls to pee. And, of course, some girls do things in between, and some have nothing happen.Here are some interesting links:http://www.sofeminine.co.uk/m/relationships/vagina.htmlhttp://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htmhttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/G-spotNote that some things on these sites may be out dated, or wrong.Wow that was a long post, but it's something I have studied (seriously studied, not "studied" meaning "messed around with"). The last thing I have to say is keep trying, if you get it right it should be very enjoyable. Hope I've helped, good luck.

it does not pain. well, as far as i know.

"it does not pain"... what does that mean?

Yeah. "it does not pain. well, as far as i know."? What the hell is that suppose to mean?

Looking back at this, I guess he/she meant "it does not hurt".

Yeah, but WHAT does not hurt?

Who cares anymore?

Do you care?

Thanks for the replies everyone ... sorry it took so long to reply, most nights I forgot this, the nights I didnt forget I didnt have chance to reply (almost got caught at half eleven on my handheld SO many times haha).Think I'll forget my g-spot for now, lol, sounds too complicated Thanks again