What is it with Guys?

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Okay, let me inquire something:
:angry:WHY AREmostGUYS SUCH CLOSE-MINDED JACKASSES?!?!? :angry:

Yes, I'm a boy. But am I the only one who dates a girl for who they are...NOT BECAUSE THEY HAVE BIG BOOBS?

Maybe it's because of my location. I live in a pretty stuck-up town. (Surprising, because I was raised in the country where women are treated with the up-most respect.) It seems almost all the guys, at least 95%, are assholes. They pick a random girl, date them, tease them, dump them, find a "hotter" one, repeat. It makes me :tired_face:SICK:tired_face: (notice the green guys), especially when my girlfriend gets upset 'cause she's scared I'm going to it to her!!

I'm the kind of dude who hangs out with alot of girls.Not because I'm girl-watching, because I'm not a total perv, and I listen; So girls tend to get along with me. This fact upsets my girlfriend, because she is under the impression that these girls are prettier than her and that I want one of them more than her. No doubt some of the girls are easy on the eyes...but I would NEVER dump her.

I want to know:
Who are these morons that make girls think that boys are just google-eyeing, ass-grabbing, heart-breaking jerks? And if you are/know someone like this...GO GET HIT BY A FUCKING TRUCK! (or get a truck and hit them)

And for the record...my girfriend has beautiful blue eyes, 34C breasts and kisses like an angel. But yanno what? I didn't know any of this until we were friends for 3 months BEFORE dating. :wink:

Ditto man, ditto.I feel the same way.

i hate all sexist comments, and this one is no different. why the fuck are you asking us why the people around you act like jerks? the hell if we know. why dont u go ask them? you probably just live at a shitty place. i'd say a good 25%-50% of people who date girls during highschool are jerks. jerks do stuff to get a rise out of people, and girls take notice to that as opposed to the boy who never says anything. don't act like its all one sides fault either. the girl that decides to go out with a boy who has had 10 girlfriends in the past 3 months should know what shes getting herself into.btw, what event really triggered you to create this topic?

Sorry...I was ranting because of some idiot. I've never gotten along with him, and he thinks it's funny to rub in my face who he's dated. Yeah, it gets a rise out of me, but not from jealousy...from hatred. He's a friggin moron, and treats girls like shit. Ugh...Sorry again. Didn't mean to come off the wrong way.

yeah, some guys (people) are just total ass holes like that. heh, and sorry about the cussing too when he starts bragging, just be like "uhmm... ok" or say nothing at all and show as little interest as possible. [Hopefully] if he sees people dont care about it, he will stop talking about it and have less of an incentive to date as many girls as possible just for bragging rights.

Well what gets to me...is he did it to my girlfriend. Yeah, they went out for ?three weeks?. He wound up dumping her cause she wouldn't let him finger her AT A MOVIE THEATER?!?! (Are you kidding me?!) Grr...mutherjackholesuckin...mumbling to myself

wow. what a fucking ass hole. yeah, now i can see why this guy gets to you. i'd be a real fucking ass hole to him, but thats just me... just let your gf know that you're there for her, you love her (if you do) and have no interest in any other girls. just reassure her if she is worried that you may be like some of the other jerks.

i agree dude. ive always both envied and hated the kinds of guys you're talking about- naturally dominant, confident assertive guys who use these qualities to attract women and then discard them because they get so good at it they dont need to worry about keeping a girl interested. but not all guys are like that, in fact some may seem that way because they attract girls but dont pay much attention to them, but are in fact just NOT keeping the girl as their top priority. women find guys who dote on them too much and act like they are the guys universe repellent because these qualities are affiliated with desperation, which is extra-super repellent to any woman worth dating. but at the end of the day you dont have to conform to the assholes way of getting girls since you're doing okay for yourself- but dont mistake a lot of confident guys who just have more important things on their mind than getting laid- which in turn attracts women- as assholes who treat their girls like shit. they are NOT the same thing.

Look at the bright side, without assholes in the world there'd be no "nice guys" either.

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Yes, I'm a boy. But am I the only one who dates a girl for who they are...NOT BECAUSE THEY HAVE BIG BOOBS?
no. my gf now don't have really have big tits but their nice. some of her bra's make her look bigger chested tho lol she's a cool girl... personality wise. honistly tho it was her looks that pulled me to her. but if she didn't have her personality to back up her looks then i'd dropped her ass.
i have dated a girl that was kinda chubby. i wasn't attrated to her at all untill i got to knowing her more.

i hang around alot of girls too. it's more about that's cuz it's mostly all i know. Ash i s a close friend of mine and i know most of her friends. pretty much the same with shannon and her fireinds. i've gotten to be friends with the girl that lives across us. at first i was scared of her lol but she's harmless... then there is the girls i hang out wiht at shows. some of them i've known for years and some i have showen with since we were kids.
shannon does have a jealouse streak tho..but the only girl shannon really had a problum with is lindsey (an Ex) but since something last summer happend we haven't hung out with her.

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Who are these morons that make girls think that boys are just google-eyeing, ass-grabbing, heart-breaking jerks? i dk. my brother could fall under the google eyeing and heart breaking i guess but he never touches a girl unless he's into it. some of his buddies are asses... i've seen them go threw alot of girls (my bro too) and iv'e heard them talk abotu girls like their ........well just a fuck. someof them have cheated and some don't. one of his friends likes it single so he can hook up with the easist girl at the party or club or wutever they do.
i think...or hope.. my brother is outgrowing that. he's been dating his gf for a while now.

the girls have part in this too tho. i mean girls don't have to go out with assholes. i don't know why they do. my sisiter wouldn't look twice at a guy like some our brother's friends.

my gf calls me a rare guy. i'm not all that rare tho. i'v had one of those wild girls that our relationship was just about sex(ex gf lindsey). she always made a point to say somthing about us infront of or to shannon.

when the guy starts talking his crap and stuff just remeber that ur gf DUMPED him cuz he was a ass and is now with u. yea cuz her past bf was a ass to her she probly has her gard up.

I think this is another stereo-type that all men are like this, It's not just men, women have their own way of doing things to men.

Actually I always told myself my gf would have to have big boobs. Now my gf actually has small ones.. And I still couldn't be happier. I dunno.. people will always have preferences.. I personally find what most guys around me consider attractive disgusting... Most guys now just want a woman with a big rear end. I have seen some people just.. eww...Lol as far as teasing goes.. don't knock it.. I tease my current gf and I tease eachother alot and I have never really felt closer to anyone who felt the same way xDIn all seriousness I think my chemistry teacher said it best (my self diagnosed add didn't stop me from learning at least one lesson in that class).. Men are jerks and women are crazy. that is the universal rule.. I didn't make it that is just how it works.Anyway.. I am a "jerk" and.. well I am a total perv.. and corrupting her.. on some levels its all in fun.. on other levels it scares me xD. I get what your sayin thou.. I think everyone knows at least one person they wish was hit by a truck.. well.. I'm less kind then that xD. I would rather do much darker things. But, ya know what they say.. the only reason some people are a live is because its illegal to kill them.Anyway.. those guys sound like my ex gf.. I personally believe in treating women well.. (when it counts).. but, its all in balancing it out..If its any incentive.. my ex gf was ugly.. i mean ugglyy.. and the most i ever did was make out with her.. ONCE.. and now.. she lives right next to my new gf.. (wierd coinsidence) I found out.. my ex has been complaining about me for the last 2 years saying I gave bad oral.. I still call her even.. and i am the reason her and her new bf are having issues.. xD.What creeps me out is my gf said she went into HUGE detail.. so she read a mag.. fantasized about me.. and now is trying to say I did stuff I didn't do... whats worse.. apparently she is telling anyone she can force to listen it xD. Oh well.. thank god my new gf is so great.. and has a brain to know when people are obviously lying xD

wut is xD ? hell i just learned that

I take xD as a big grin like :grin:.

Fuck dude, you think guy's are bad! half the girls i know are fuckign whores, take my very recent ex girlfriend for example, she started dating her friend on the day she broke up with me, i can only presume she started before breakign up with me

you guys broke up???..

she isnt necessarily a whore...maybe she just wanted someone else??? not to be a bitch here. even tho it is kind of mean.

i was angry, she isnt a whore, that wasnt nice, i'm a bit of a basket case right now, i cant decide if i want to be her freind or never talk to her again. grrrr

Yea, thats the stereotypical guy that unfortunately most girls have the image of. Good thing is there is a few good guys out there that want a girl for the girl, not sex. We think with our brains not our penis.

Drama..... Drama.... Drama.... Drama.....Christ! Why are the teenage years so filled with frivolous Drama ???

I wish it wasn't but I'm sure most teenagers start it on there own.