I seem to be missing my sister alot. I know she moved out like a year ago or so... two years ago or something but I don't know I really miss her alot. Since Sunday I've missed her so much. But I haven't gotten to the point where I cried because that would be pretty bad. I don't know and at this time since school is almost over but I don't know what to do. She's been with her hubby since forever. I love him like the brother he is but he's a thief. He stole her from me lol. And she's always busy with work and whatnot. Going to these stupid premiers and I can't even talk to her on the phone anymore cause she's always like "oh I gotta go they need me on the set" or "can't talk right now we have to shoot this scene again". I may sound selfish but it's not fair. I really miss her and she doesn't even talk to anybody at all as much. Everytime I try to make arrangements to see her something comes up. I invited her to come to church like 5 weeks ahead of time because I was doing a dance for family and friends day and she canceled the day before saying that they needed her at the Tribeca Film Festival 2007 in New York City. She didn't even ask how I did. And I saw her on the news when they were interviewing all those stupid rich famous people but I honestly don't care now because they are the ones keeping her from me. I know I keep sounding more and more selfish by the minute but if you only knew. She can at least set aside one day. Last time I saw her was 2 days after my Sweet Sixteen when she took me out with her best friend but even then she had to help with some screenplay. I don't know. I just don't think it's right that her work is taking up that much of her time. She needs a break. I know it's her life and all whoop whoop but sometimes I feel like she forgets she has a little sister. Lord!
Marriage and work are two things you have to give high priority to, and they can both take a surprising amount of time - especially if your career is taking off. Unfortunately what you're experiencing, Abi, is very normal, and it happens with friends too. It seems to be happening more with your sister because she's having success, but it's not so well established that she can just pick and choose what work she will do. At this stage in a burgeoning career people get given a lot of work and feel they must do it all.And when she has a family it will take even more of her time.
Reminds me to be closer to my lil sis =( 11 years younger than me. Thank you Fan of Japan