Hello all! I am feeling very low today; I’m in a dilemma and need your help. Here is my story:I got married last year without the consent of my parents and I was really happy that I got a life partner like Jassen. We had lots of fun and spend very memorable moments together. After some months his behaviour changed drastically. He never talked to me in a good tone. I didn’t know what the hell was happening and one day he said everything that was in his heart and I remember only these words… “if you don’t want to stay here then the door is open”. I couldn’t believe my ears and that day itself I left his house. 3 weeks had passed since I left the house….i thought that he will come to pacify me but he didn’t….And the day before yesterday I went to his house. He was not there and the house in chaos. Suddenly my eyes fell on a parcel that was on his table. It was open and contained some pills…Famvir…yes it’s that. I found a receipt that contained the phone number of this online pharmacy in Canada. I phoned them but they say that due to privacy of their customers they cannot say anything….i searched for this pill on the pharmacy’s site and it said something about herpes…my husband didn’t return home that day, he doesn’t even take my phone calls. I have begun suspecting that he is suffering from herpes but it could also be that he bought them for someone else….i don’t understand anything….What should I do? I love him..love him a lot. Could it be that he wants to hide his suffering from me that’s why he told me to go away…oufff I am having a terrible headache…got to go.
I need your advice!!
Chances are that he is cheating or has cheated and has contracted Herpes. You need to step up to the plate and talk to him. He's obviously hiding something and you need to know what's going on. You say you love him alot but he doesn't seem to feel the same. We don't know the full story but it's my opinion that you need to seriously consider cutting this guy loose and move on.
I agree with sdp, he might have cheated and got herpes that way =/ at this point, it doesn't seem like he loves you and just wants you to be safe. I would seriously consider putting forth serious steps to talk to him, or cutting him lose *hugs* I'm sorry :frowning: