Am I gay?

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what am i? im really confused.. i'm a guy, i get turned on by guys with like six packs and i watch both gay/straight porn but when i think of havin sex with a guy i feel grossed out. in my mind, my 'future' is getting married with a girl that i like and raise a family and i do get crushes on girls from my school because i think they are pretty, but i dont get turned on by them or anything.. yet I really want a girlfriend. lol wow im super weird. im being honest.. but then the thing is when i look at a six pack, im more jealous of it because i wish i'd have it. in ur oppinions, am i gay, straight or bi? im not saying being gay is a bad thing, im just curious

You're probably not gay, a lot of guys (even my husband) gets turned on by gay porn, and things like that, but he'd never think of having sex with a guy because that freaks him out (believe me, I've tried for three-ways with another guy, instead of another girl like we have). Anyway, what I'm saying is being turned on my gay porn does not mean your gay.

I agree, most guys are at least a little bit bi, but you're no more bi than the norm.

From the info you gave I'd say you are not gay but instead curious. As Ineligible said it's very normal to have these thoughts and feelings.Also don't put so much pressure on yourself to be a certain way or to even figure it all out now. Give yourself time to figure it all out. I had a lot of the same feelings you did when I was younger, I even thought when I got turned on by other guys it was because I wanted to have a body like theirs. When I got older, and experimented with my sexuality I realized I was gay.Again give yourself time, have fun, and be yourself. No need to stress over something so trivial

i feel the same way just w/ the opp sex's

You're not gay Maybe a lil curious, but then again, I think everyone is a lil bi-curious