hey...this is my 1st post to the forum..and i would like to say hi in this thread too..i would like you all to know that i'm not too happy about my bod and such.i'm 5 feet 7 inches tall, 194 pounds..for the past few days, i have been watching movies.and i think the feeling came from it..erm..i don't know how to explain this but, it sorta feels gay.firsty, i confused if i am really gay or straight?after i watched a movie, there is this one actor, Chris Evans, caught my eye, and i began looking information on him as i think his body is pretty hot and such...after looking up for pictures of the actor and stuff, it's like a mini-obsession for a moment..and i started to feel a bit emotional and upset about something i can't explain..so the feeling eventually fades away in about 2 days feeling down and glum..after that, i watch another movie, and started feeling upset and weird again...and it's coming again like the previous time..this movie is about soccer and the main actor of the movie trains every morning and he will go half-naked, and in my mind, it's like, "wow, what a nice body" sort of thoughts.and hearing some songs that will like recall the good'ol times with my mates and such, it saddens me too...i'm feeling lousy all the time..can someone enlighten me on what i'm going through and why am i feeling those weird feelings after the movies?sorry for this very long post, but i just can't help it...i'm like at the edge of going crazy from those messed up feelings.
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Feeling stressed out and weird
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i'm not quite sure of it myself too, but most of the time, when i watch porn, i feel more drawn towards gay porn..i would get hard over girls in tight costumes and such, but it's rare....
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somehow, it knocks some sense...and i'm trying to reduce the frequency of which i watch gay porn..
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I'm no expert,but I think I agree with HelmsmanGay porn is unnaturalporn is unnaturaland while there is nothing wrong with itif you don't get much "action", that could be causing you to have urgesI believe that on some level, many men with less than perfect bodies think "I like his body, I wish I could look like that"it doesn't necessarily mean you are thinking "that is a hot piece of ass, I'd like to take him out back"so just don't worry,stay away from the porn and any movies with sports or Mission Impossible and I think you'll be fine
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most probably it's could b the "I like his body, I wish I could look like that" problem..been trying to work it out by planning a daily workout schedule which i can stick by...without interfering with my schoolworkbut i wondering what makes me feel like this?? i'm not like this the previous year...i started feeling like this, during i think March period...and yeah, i'm a pretty late bloomer...i started to ejaculate at the age of late 13..if i din remember wrong..
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That's not late - that's actually about average.
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I seriously wouldn't worry about it,if it bothers you that you have these "feelings"then concentrate on your schedule and school and friendsI mean of course you can't stop being horny and what not,but if you concentrate less on sex and more on other things it should pass
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is it normal to feel confused about one's sexuality and stuff like that?feeling depressed and down during this time of my life is it normal or what happens when one goes through puberty?anyway, thanks guys, you've all been a great help...
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Yes, what you're feeling is very common. Not everyone feels stressed and depressed and confused about sexuality in puberty, but many people do.
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is there anything in particular that i can do to avoid more of these kind of thoughts?
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Try to accept things as they are. Rather than feeling they are wrong, accept that that is the way you happen to be feeling at the moment. Remember that sexuality in puberty is often fluid and takes some time to settle down.I think we are probably all bisexual at the base of our brains, and then there is a filter placed on top of that, which tends to work imperfectly, and especially at puberty.
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woah...oh man, i can't do anything...
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Try not to, MaKorJustin. You're as worthy a person as anyone else!
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it's getting slightly better now...hope it just dies off fast enough the next time round...