Okay the other night, i was at a party and I fell asleep in some room and I woke up around 1 or two and I looked up and my pants were off and a girl was on my dick going up and down slowly. I didnt do anything at first bc she was very attractive and i somebody was going off on my penis lol. But in the next 10 sec i orgasmed and then she got her clothes and ran off. It was so weird. But i feel awful bc i wasnt wearing a condom and now Im not a vergin right? Man im so confused right now. Id like some helpTo anyone reading this thread. This post was exposed to be a hoax. It is unfotunate that people like this clown, cry wolf and cause members to be sceptical about people with real issues. Please be real , because our members are real caring people.
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Wow I cant believe this happened!
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I would consider that rape. Do you know who the girl was?You might want to report it to the police, just for your own protection, in case she gets pregnant and decides to claim paternity, or even that she was raped.I'm sorry, that was a bad thing to happen.
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Are you serious? Oh my gosh wow
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Most likely it won't happen. But the girl probably was overcome with lust for you and decided to try something. She may be on birth control, but we don't know that. The thing is, what does she do if she gets pregnant? Her parents will be furious. So the easy way out for her is to claim that you raped her.Although we can hope none of that will happen, it can happen, and for that reason it's best to make sure you protect yourself against it. At the very least it needs to be recorded somewhere under your own name, with details. If you don't want to involve the police, perhaps a rape crisis centre or a counsellor?
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I concur,if you never expect to see this girl again, and if she is not your girlfriend, then no harm comes from reporting the incidentdon't try to protect her; the safest bet would be to protect yourself,it may be a slim chance that she is pregnant, or if she'll claim that you raped her, but you should still take every precaution necessary
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If this truly happened the way you wrote, you do need to protect yourself and get the incident on record now. Girls raping guys is certainly not common and you may have a difficult time getting someone to believe you, but get it on the record. The police would probably not even investigate, but at least you're covered before a claim is made against YOU.
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omg... ok yeah report that bitch to the police!!! thats sick. im really sorry what a terrible way to lose your virginity...
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Yeah, I know its quite devestating acutally. I dont think I will ever see the girl again but if I do i doubt I could even recognize her. She wasnt much older than me maybe 16
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omg you should still report that to the police!!!
it doesnt matter if you can recognize her or not! she freaking raped you. that actually makes me feel sick to my stomach. :cry:have you showered??! cuz if not they could do a DNA test.
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It'll unfortunately come down to the word of 'innocent little girl' VS 'Nazi pig-scum horny teen male' That is the way the media and courts see it.HOWEVER, if the OP makes an official police report, it could lead to reasonable doubt if she tries to claim she was raped first (reasonable doubt being a good thing)
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That's exactly the point that I was trying to make. This clearly is a rare occurrence; it's always assumed that horny guys are trying to get into the pants of innocent girls, not the other way around.Since there were no witnesses other than the two involved, it comes down to a "he said-she said". Not to minimize what happened to Superman, but the police will hardly believe this, let alone investigate it. However, if he puts it on the record now and she later claims rape or pregnancy, his story will be a whole lot more believable because who in their right mind would ever rape a girl and then go themselves to the police and report it before she did?
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and thats probably one of the many reasons why people dont take men getting raped seriously. because they probably dont bother to do anything about it.... :frowning:
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I told my bro, he said i should go to the police immed before the situation gets flipped on me. I went to the police station this morning but they only laughed at me that i was some little kid and that I had no idea what I was talking about. I said it was a serious matter and they should at least file a report in case she tries to put it all on me. They did nothing. I need help on what to do now.
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This is a rape situation and they CAN'T refuse to do a report. Go back and tell them that you are reporting a crime and that if they don't at least take you seriously enough to fill out a report, you'll hire a lawyer. Whatever you do, don't let it go. The cop who refuses to take a report on a rape (regardless of gender) is, in my book, as guilty as the person who committed the rape.In the meantime, document EVERYTHING. When you went to the police station. What you asked for. Who you talked to. What they said. That kind of thing.
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This is indeed an unusual crime, but it is a crime none the less and the police have no choice but to at least take a report of what, when, and where. As I suggested earlier, they probably won't do any investigation. But they must take the report.I'm not surprised that you're having difficulty getting someone to believe you, but you must persist. Like Damien suggested, document everything in writing. Go back to the police station and try again. If this officer refuses to take a report, be sure you get his (or her) name and badge number. Then ask to speak with his (or her) superior. Make sure you keep dates, times, names, and badge number of all you talk to. Good luck!
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Originally Posted By: Superman675757
I told my bro, he said i should go to the police immed before the situation gets flipped on me. I went to the police station this morning but they only laughed at me that i was some little kid and that I had no idea what I was talking about. I said it was a serious matter and they should at least file a report in case she tries to put it all on me. They did nothing. I need help on what to do now.
I'm sorry, but I'm going to have to call BS on this thread. It was believable until he said that. The Police would not laugh at you. sounds like a lie. all of it sounds pretty unlikely to me especially this. Sounds like he's pulling all your legs. -
Yeah im recording everything so far. I know who I talked to and the dates but i do not want this spread across the city and if I hire a lawyer it will. I am doing all that i can right now, im taking note of everything that is happeneing
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or, hes being serious.
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If you tell them you'll hire a lawyer if they don't file a report, they'll probably not take any chances and do the report, so it won't necessarily require you to hire a lawyer. Also, I'd recommend telling them you'll hire a lawyer if they don't file the report after you speak with the officers-in-question's superior and he still doesn't file a report.
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I may be really paranoid here, but I would have a fear that reporting this to the police could backfire. It probably wouldn't in this case, since he cannot identify the girl. But imagine a scenario where he could identify her. In this scenario the police go to her with a rape accusation. I'd make a pretty large bet that she'd then turn it into a claim that he had raped her and that he'd gone to the police with this story of being the victim as an attempt to get out of criminal charges. Again, that might sound paranoid, but it also reflects somewhat of an understanding of the police mentality. Police are pretty conventional and simple minded as well as suspicious. I entirely believe that they would laugh at a male crying rape and just not believe it.