Meh, men... you can't live with 'em and it's illegal to shoot them.This isn't really asking for advice, I'm just wanting to rant and rave about how sucky I think my love life is right now. So sit back and enjoy the ride!So I'm wondering, what could possibly be so wrong with me that I can't attract a potential date every once in a while? I'm not really looking for Mr. Perfect or even Mr. Right Now; I'm just confused about why I can't seem to attract a normal, down to earth, easy going type of guy. I'm starting to think there is something wrong with me. Maybe I stink or maybe I just put off this 'stay away' vibe. What ever it is, I'm tired of it. I've even given up the whole 'looking' for someone. I've learned to deal with being single, which does have it's perks from time to time, but why do I have to be single for four years? Not that I'm counting... I'm serious though, what does a girl have to do to get a good guy to look her way?Yeah, yeah, I've had 'dates'... well they can't actually be called dates because I can't honestly say I've ever really been on a date-date... hmm... I've had dinners with great male friends, does that count? Didn't think so. But thats not the question or even the point, I just want to know how I could possibly go about getting a guy to even notice me. I'm not blowing my own horn or anything, and I think everyone is entitled to some sort of narcissistic thiking every once in a while (and I'm taking full advantage of that right now), and I think I'm a rather damn good looking woman. I'm funny, I'm a good person, and I'm more fun that a barrel full of monkeys if I say so myself. So what's the deal guys? And one thing that really aggravates me is the fact that I know this one gal who is so nappy, and gross and yet she's got a fiancee. I mean this girl has the worst hygiene and yet she can snag a man. I'm talking no baths, greasy hair, doesn't shave anything, her teeth have funk growing on them, and talk about ass breath! And yet she's in a relationship. Sorry, if that's what it takes, I'll be a hermit before I get all funky and let my self turn into some sort of ewok off of star wars. No thank you. And before anyone says 'How do you know she doesn't take baths?' I grew up with her, I know her very well, it was gross when we were kiddos and it's nasty as hell now too. I think she's allergic to soap and stuff.But anyways, as I said, not really looking for answers, just wanting to rant.
It's crappy crap crapola crapness!
I know you're not asking for advice but can I just say... please continue to bathe and brush your teeth.oh yeah, and just keep being the wonderful you that you are.
Honey, If I wasn't gay I'd ask you out in a heart beat! Your a real catch. But remember you're dealing with Texas men that have the collective IQ of a rock.
The only things they think about are fishing, drinking bear, wondering what that funny noise is coming from their truck and wondering if they can bum a smoke from you because they're "trying to quit" and haven't bought any in a while and getting their dick sucked. (Well maybe not in this order!)
Don't you get a chance to say hello to them while at work when they come thru your line.
I invited cashire at Tom Thumb to our house for a bbq becasue he's fucking hot! He showed up and drank a bunch of beer with us and still likes to hang out but says he's straight. (Good for you but too bad for our team.)
Maybe you need to go after them rather than waiting for them
I'm here for ya baby! of course if you ever hook up with Mr. "U" I want pictures.. Hes just fricking Hot! He would be a fun to one play postage stamp with.
(Sorry Mr."U". I had to tell the truth. You'r just the cats meow!)
@ my old man - crosses heart I promise I'll keep bathing and brushing my teeth, scouts honor!@ Roc - Aw honey, you made me feel much better! Quote:But remember you're dealing with Texas men that have the collective IQ of a rock. The only things they think about are fishing, drinking bear, wondering what that funny noise is coming from their truck and wondering if they can bum a smoke from you because they're "trying to quit" and haven't bought any in a while and getting their dick sucked. (Well maybe not in this order!) That really made me laugh because it's so true! The men (well, they're more like over grown boys) in my area are so much like that it's not even funny; it's rather sad. Drives me nutty, ack!I'm tired of chasing them, so I decided I'd give them a chance to come knocking on my door... I can see there isn't exactly a long line out there! lol
Quote:(Sorry Mr."U". I had to tell the truth. You'r just the cats meow!)don't appologise for complimenting me. in fact, feel free to keep it up!
I think I know why they feel intimidated because your such a nice person. they feel as though they arent good enough for you. and trust me, a lot of guys arent LOL J/K
Well, if you ever want to give women a try....you know where to find me.
You just need to get out of that armpit they call Cott...lolO wait! I live in one of those....Cotton hell...on the running L ranch...L=late, loser, lost, lonely, LADY'S only, (tsk tsk, its called estrogen alley because there are only women living on it!)Sometimes, a change of scenery helps. IDK, get out there and meet some guys from outta town...I have never been south much of El Paso, so I wouldn't know much about it down there, but in all of New Mexico, I only found one man that was worth his salt....(sorry to anyone on here from NM, I doubt I met ya!)
Well, if you ever want to give women a try....you know where to find me. :grin:
Well with an offer like that from such a sexy/lovely lady, how can I refuse? I just might take ya up on that :grin:
You just need to get out of that armpit they call Cott...lol
I couldn't agree more sweetie! I think they put too much chlorine in the gene-pool... poor saps never had a chance! :grin:
I've basically rid myself of all the 'stupid' men in my life. They took too much from me emotionally, took to much space in my life, and were just plain asshats that I could do without. I had to reevaluate things in my life and honestly I feel much better for it.
Now if only I can figure out how to fix other things in my life... lol
Urgh...U know, I have to see what the plane ticket says....Austin, Hustin(sp) I am headed there in Nov...For a couple of days. If I am close enough..we will just have to go play!!!!Finding the right guy is difficult in the best of enviroments...and of course all the great guys here either live forever away, or are gay...so hang in there hon...I thought I found mr right 2x and look at the shit I really found!!!!