terrible it really is, ah soooo ok its a long story here it goesme an my girlfriend started having sex like for a month, then i got my circumcision donewe waite a month an it healed nice it looks hot we have sex, i usually last 20-30 min, an i did the 1st time i did it since i healed....but now last 4-5 x ive been finishing in like under 5 min !!!!oh my thats sooo not good, now sex sucks i just fear orgasming, i dont want to orgasm caus its tooo fast sex sucks !!!!!! WE us the pill an pull out method which is really safe now im scared off my mind cause i fear now i dont even have any control of my dick an my orgasming it just happens whenever it wants an i cant even enjoy it anymore!!!!!!
I just dont work right anymore!!
First of all, calm down and relax. All is not lost.Second, HelmsmaN already gave you good points about your situation. You need to give yourself time to get used to the new sensitivity. You'll learn to get used to it. It's just a matter of time and retraining your body.And sex isn't all about going in and out for 30 minutes. What about foreplay? Try giving oral or mutual stimulation a shot.If you are scared about ejaculating inside, even though she's on the pill, use a condom to make you feel better. Plus, a condom can help you in making you last a bit longer. Just tell your girlfriend to get use to the smell of rubber.
yah thanks lol im just really worried about this shit, i keep having problems after problems an i thought that everthing was fine now since it looks goodanyways i tried oral a few times but she didnt really seam to dig it, fingering her is ok to but she always wants it inside.she likes giving me oral now, but when i do it she doesnt get all that into it
Can I ask why you posted this twice?
But on the subject,
Listen to these guys. They know what they are talking about. Explore the threads and look up the ones on "lasting longer".
You'll be fine, you've just got to adjust.