I dont want to have sex yet because Im only 15. So instead i'll finger myself. But I dont know how really. Like everyone I talk to says its supposed to feel good, but I find it uncomfortable. And honestly I dont know where Im supposed to go. Its not like i can do it in front of a mirror and look inside. What am I doing wrong? And how am I supposed to know where my finger is supposed to go?
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Inside me?
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You don't have to masturbate by inserting fingers inside your vagina. You can if you wish, but a lot of women masturbate by rubbing the clitoris.
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As a guy, I'm not really sure how much help I can offer, but, when trying anything new with your body, it can be uncomfortable for a while, until you mentally and physically get used to it. I think girls have to be a little more gentle than guys though, because, the vagina is inside the female body, not hanging out of it. As for knowing what it's like inside... I'd say you just have to experiment, feel around, and stuff like that. And, when you do, to take it slowly. Maybe use some lube?
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You just have to try different stuff. About a knuckle or knuckle and a half or so is your g-spot.But most girls, like myself, like the clit to be played with more so then insertion.Do you know where your clit is?
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Yea, I know where my clit is. I've done that stuff before, just when i inserted my finger and it felt weird or hurt I didnt know if I was doing anything wrong.
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Well, I don't know why it hurts when you insert your finger.Maybe you should work yourself up some by messing with your clit, to make sure you are wet and your finger will glide in better. Then when your fingering yourself, it may be more enjoyable.It isn't impossible to get off by insertion with your own finger, I have gotten off that way before.Good luck, have fun.