ok im extremely too nice i think like i always ask about kissing before i do and all which is not good lol. im single but if im at a party and i want to go kiss a girl ive been talking too(ive known them all) should i just like get close and then lean over and give a kiss on the lips and then go from there? also, if i have a gf should i be buying them a ticket for dances at schools? i shouldnt like ask about doing things before hand right? thanks for the help.
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Drawing the line between nice guy and schmuck
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asking for permission of kissing is one of the lamest things i've ever heard. i think it can ruin the moment too, ESPICIALLY if she says no! and its happend to a friend before...if the mood is right, you're in the right place and she's acting in the right way.. you can sorta tell...i would MUCH prefer to lean in and try a light kiss and be told 'no thanks' rather than asking "Hey can i kiss you?" "NO." at least you can say you tried :P
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ROFLMAO - Natasha I love your post! Honestly it makes sense. Sometimes you just can't tell if a girl wants to be kissed. And then other times it's like, "could you possibly be any slower?" And yes Animal...do what she says. I would love for a guy to do that!
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ok thanks for all the help. i def feel more comfortable. if you have any more advice please drop it.
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whats the ROF in ROFLMAO mean?
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I had a big thing for the sister of a friend of mine. She lives in another state so we don't get to see each other much, but I did go out to see her three times. She is eight years younger than me (at the time she was 19 and I was 27) and we had spent the whole day together and that night I so wanted to kiss her, but she's totally inexperienced and I don't think she's ever been on a date or kissed anybody before (she was raised very religious, which now in hindsight, maybe I shouldn't have wasted my time because she was a bit of a prude). So I figured I had two options: just try to kiss her and run the chance of her freaking out, or ask her if I could kiss her, which I figured was a totally wussy thing to do. I did neither and I am sure she thought I was going to do it. We've since lost contact, but I wonder if I had asked her what her response would have been.
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In reply to: but I wonder if I had asked her what her response would have been. and if she had said "umm.. guess its not a wise thing for us to do" or similiar, would you not be wondering today "what would she had done if i had just leaned in and kissed her?"?
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ROF means 'rolling on the floor'.
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I suppose you have a point there!