Ok so i realize this is probably going to sound like every other post on this board but i read through a few of them and i didn't feel like all my questions were answered. So i lost my virginity like a week ago, and I've had a bunch of random sex since then. I'm not sure how many times exactly but it was all ways with a condom, aside from one time he put his penis in me and we kinda layed there for a few minutes without doing anything and he was no where near coming or anything, however i know pre-come can get people pregnant so i will never ever do that again. also after every time we had sex he stayed in me for a while after he came, and i had no idea that could cause me to become pregnant until i read some of the posts on this site. the condom has never broken, or slipped off though as far as i could tell. anyway my periods are generally pretty regular, they start near the end of the month, and end at the beginning of the next month and I'm still waiting. I've been PMSing last week and i figured that meant that my cycle would start soon. anyway my body's been acting kinda weird, and I'm wondering if it could be stress or something because if i was pregnant there wouldn't be any noticeable change for several months at least right? I've completely lost my appetite for food, I've been feeling really weird, I've been finding it hard to focus on things, and I've been peeing constantly but it's always just water. Anyway I'm probably just paranoid, but i can tell my boyfriends worried to. But if any one has any advice or words of wisdom of anything it would be greatly appreciated, i don't really have anyone i can talk to about this.
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Just looking for some advice.
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It sounds like anxiety or stress. It's too early for pregnancy symptoms (some start earlier than several months, but this is too early), and from what you've said, pregnancy sounds very unlikely. Anxiety can hold your period back a week.Having a bunch of "random sex" in a week straight after losing your virginity sounds like a big life change. Perhaps the stress is more than just worries of pregnancy?
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You're not going to have any pregnancy symptoms within the 1st week of having sex.
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yeah that makes sense. i haven't really even been worried about the whole pregnancy thing till like a day ago. in any case if my period dose decide to start theres no way in hell I'm ever having sex again till i get some kinda chemical/hormonal birth control.
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also i usually have noticeable pms for like a day or two, but I've been having obvious mood swings all week! do you think that could be stress also? anyway if my period dosnt start next week I'm gonna go to the doctor and get a pregnancy test. i think i could handle being pregnant, but i will go insane if i don't find out soon! errm how would i go about doing that anyway?
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When the period is delayed, the PMS often does go on longer.You can buy pregnancy tests from a pharmacy, no prescription needed. They should work now, as they as supposed to work from as soon as the period is missed. They come with instructions - you use your morning urine.
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Sounds like most of it is mainly paranoi and just in ur head, maybe get a preg test in a few weeks? idk what the rule is on how long ur suppost to wait before u test.
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i heard that you have to wait like three weeks before the pregnancy tests in the store will work, but that if you go to a clinic or something you can find out sooner. anyway yeah I'm probably just paranoid. thats probably common with girls when they loose there virginity... or it seems so when i read some of the posts on this topic. but i guess there's nothing wrong with a little paranoia to scare you into being more cautious. oh, also I'm in school for cosmatology, and i was wondering if anyone knows if being exposed to chemicals like bleach, color, perm, relaxer, and sanitizers would be harmful to a baby if i was pregnant... i guess i should just ask my teachers, there all moms.
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hazah! my period started today!!!!!!!
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Hooray!