Ex-Girlfriend

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Well I guess I'm just having some issues on confusion i suppose. Me and my ex-g/f, we were going out for about a year and a half, recently broke up about a month ago. One reason we broke up was another guy that everyone said she was cheating on me with I dont know if it was true or not but thats what they said. Now were dating other people and I'm dating too. She's dating the guy everyone said she was cheating on me with. I dont know I just need to know if I should just fully get over her. It's hard, which I'm sure everyone goes threw it. I just need help on how exactly, right now I'm dating a girl and shes great, I have a lot of fun with her and everything. I just need to know if I should hold any glimmer of hope of my last relationship, or just let everything pass in time.Nick

Time. It will only take time. It might take awhile. Just warm up on your new relationship, and give it a chance and don't give up on it. I was in your situation before, was hooked on my ex for quite some time. Now, I don't even think of her, and don't even care if she existed. Time is key.

Quote:Now were dating other people and I'm dating too. She's dating the guy everyone said she was cheating on me with.Well, if you're both already dating other people, I think the answer to your question is pretty obvious. Depending on how long ago you guys broke up, I think you both jumped onto new relationships pretty quickly, considering how long you two were together. A year and a half is a long time, but it's going to take time to get over it and move on.

Yea, I do still have a lot of feelings for my ex, since its only been about a month. I'm just wondering if I should give some time till I get really serious with this new girl. I just want to know that I can be emotionally ready for the relationship, not just physically. I dont want to use her, or anything like that. I've been talking to my ex lately, and its just difficult because I dont know what to do, It's just so confusing. Anyone got some ideas.

Quote:Yea, I do still have a lot of feelings for my ex, since its only been about a month. I'm just wondering if I should give some time till I get really serious with this new girl. I just want to know that I can be emotionally ready for the relationship, not just physically.Well, like I said, I personally believe you jumped into a new relationship a bit fast. It's only been a month, so of course you still have some feelings for your ex. You need time in order for you to get over your ex well enough that you're ready to give 100% of your energy to your new girlfriend. You need to give yourself time. How much time is up to you. Quote:I've been talking to my ex lately, and its just difficult because I dont know what to do, It's just so confusing. Anyone got some ideas.For starters, you need to stop talking to your ex. If you want to move on and have a new relationship with the current girl you are with, you need to cut it off. It might start problems with your new relationship and as well as your ex's new relationship.

Amen!Quit creating more drama

Thanks everyone for the help.

Just be honest with yourself. Just ask yourself what you to do are. And think about your girl with whom you are now.