Stopping ejaculation, but continuing orgasm

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I've heard many times that a guy can still have an orgasm without ejaculating. My friend told me that there is a spot you can push or if you hold the bottom of the shaft rather tightly, that her boyfriend's cum doesn't come out. I want to know more about this, and I didn't know where else to look. I'm sorry if this has already been asked. Does anyone know about this?Thanks.

The Masters and Johnson squeeze technique for premature ejaculation involved squeezing the shaft tightly, but that was to temporarily prevent orgasm entirely, and is no longer in favour (just stopping all stimulation for a while is now the preferred alternative for that). It may be possible to pinch off the urethra to stop ejaculation by that route, but it wouldn't stop ejaculation entirely. Instead the ejaculate would force its way up into the bladder, in what is called "retrograde ejaculation". This isn't encouraged, because it is feared that if this is done too often it might become too easy for the semen to go that way, and it might go that way all the time, making you effectively infertile.There isn't much direct evidence that this can happen, but unwanted retrograde ejaculation is a common side-effect for people who have had a prostate operation through the urethra.

if it's my 3rd nut busted in a day i can have an orgasm but nothing will come out.

retrograde ejaculation sounds rather painful. I think that another direction you can go in researching this, oneandonly, is looking up "tantric sex." I'm not positive, but I think that's what its called when a guy can orgasm without ejaculation. It's sort of like achieving a more permanent orgasmic state; Sting, rumour has it, can do this for hours, lol (it was on Friends once)

It's generally considered that the orgasm without ejaculation in tantric sex is in fact retrograde ejaculation.

i meant the reference to Sting's supposed endurance I picked up from Friends, not the more in-depth explanation of tantric sex.

Take it from me, retrograde ejaculation is not the way to go. I tried it once at about 13-14 to keep the pleasure going... it's one of the most uncomfortable (not so much painful as much as just really really uncomfortable) feelings you'll experience. And other than that, the only way I know of to stop orgasm is stop and go, cause if you reach that certain point, that semens goin' somewhere!

I logged in just now with just the same question that you are having.
Holding back on an orgasm just doesn't seem natural, and I was wondering if it was_harmful_.
I'm 34 years old, and I've been 'holding the stuff back' for around 17 years.
( My family is really FKed up when it comes to sex. Sex is dirty, sinful, ... shameful. I guess to me holding in the orgasm is my minds way of not engaging in the full act. )

I would hate to think that some of you kids could think that you could actually manually hold back an orgasm while having sex with someone.NOT GONNA HAPPEN !
You'll end up with a kid ... kids.

Anyways, In my own experience, If I press hard in the region between the butthole and the balls, I can have a full orgasm without anything cumming out ( pun intended )
I'm a limp old man and you kids have a lot more force behind what you got, so you may not be able to control it that well.
In the area that I press, you can feel the tubes that carry your stuff up.
Sometimes, some of it makes its' way up, but not much at all.
If some of it feels like it has a lot of pressure ( you can feel it ) you may have to hold the spot for a minute or so before the pressure goes down some.

What surprises me is that some of you have found it painful.
To me it is just the opposite.
I tell you truthfully, in my own personal experience, the orgasm seems perhaps twice as potent as when the stuff just cums out.
I will vouche for the comment about the semen coming out your body through your urine. The urine appears cloudy.
I went two days shy of a full year without touching that part of my body ( except to clean it DUH ).
I found out that the body naturally gets rid of the excess sperm in your urine. ( Sometimes I would go to pee and the urine would be so thick it would just dribble out like motor oil. )
EWWWW !

Anyways, I began to worry some that I might be harming myself by doing this crap, so I chilled for a while and did the full thing for a while. The stuff cums out normal, so apparently I haven't messed up anything.

Or have I ?

Could something like this make you go limp later in life ?
After all you are messing with your muscles down there, and some of those are what hold the thing up.
Maybe its just my antidepressants, my age, my diet, my ...whatever, but now I have an endourance of a few seconds.
The thing stays stiff as a rod if there is some friction going on or even if I just grip the thing, but once I let go, the thing starts to fall after around five seconds.
So do your research before doing this manuver.