Hi guys, last week I went to my school-leavers prom, and some people were making comments about my chest which were quite derogatory even though my dress was modest.This guy who I didnt know asked me to dance with him, I declined. Then he started being very insistent so I lost my temper with him.:( My friends found this all very funny saying you've pulled etc, but for the reason below I felt very uncomfortable.See the thing is I have no experience with boys, and right now I don't really want to get into relationships and everything.Id appreciate any thoughts on this.
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Weirded Out.
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I have no clue what the hell it is your asking?if you dont want to get into a relationship then dont. A dance however isnt a relationship nor the definate beginning of one.If he wanted to dance just because you had nice tits, and you declined then I think you should of added a kick in the ass to the 'no'.being insistant and continueing to bother you however is uncalled for, even though i did it many times myself inthe past I was trying ot be clever about it and wear down the resistance. You cant just keep asking the same thing over and over and over and all in a matter of 30 seconds, that deserves a kick inthe nards.so uhh, what the hell was the question? I really didnt understand or atleast dont think I do based on your original post. is it ok to not dance? of course it is, is it ok to not dance with any guys? fuck an a, but if you went to the dance and go t all dressed up for it, and dotn dance, then why the hell did ya go?
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I went for the sentimental reason that is I wanted to say goodbye to my friends not to dance lol.
My question Im sorry I didnt phrase it correctly is I suppose is it normal to feel that way if someone acts like that with you. -
No matter why some assholes bothering you, I think tis a perfetly normal reaction to feel that way.But then again, Im known for violence and never turning the other cheek, it takes less than 1 second to go from what did you say? to hitting someone so I may not be the best person to say its normal to get pissed over not being left alone.
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Just because you carry big claws doesn't mean you have to use them. - Bodhidharma
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Dr Zoidburg once said "These claws aint just for attracting mates ya know!"I think if you have em, you need to use them.Use em or lose em.
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That's the stupidest thing I've ever heard. I hope those "claws" put you in jail, or give you a lazy eye for the rest of your life. No, I don't wish that, but they're about the only permanent possible outcomes violence can give you.
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it was comedy, not seriousness lolZoidberg is awesomeeee
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Looking at my life I have to disagree, Iv done pretty well by violence. That snot saying Iv nevre had my ass whooped, and Iv had serious injurys, broken skull, busted jaw, broken ribs, a bit of brain damage that got me banned from boxing for life... and I can hold my head up and look at myself in the mirror and know Im not a chickenshit pussy, even if sometimes I hve to wait for the sweling to go down to be able to see clearly.
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It takes a lot more balls to walk away from a fight, and lose "respect" from your peers. So far you've been somewhat lucky, no jail, no serious brain damage. Although I'd consider the minor damage pretty serious too.The last person who messed with me was a junkie who mugged me. He attacked me, I tried to reason with him, when that failed I gave him my iPod. I then followed him, called the cops and had him arrested. That was almost two years ago, and he has at least 3 more in prison ahead of him. I lost nothing, risked nothing and he learnt a lesson far more painful than any beating could have given him.I'm proud that I can hold my head up and look at myself in the mirror for keeping my cool in a rough situtation, evaluated the situtation well, and took the correct course of action to resolve it. Instead of making rash, stupid decisions that could end up with me broken, bleeding, handicapped or dead on the sidewalk.
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Being mugged, with all do respect, is a whole different thing than fighting or training in a contact sport. I was mugged in Venezuela (one of the 5 times) in like 1991 and this one I thought I was dead. I had already been pistol whipped when this guy I didn't even know came around, tackled the gunman, and got shot to death right in front of me. He died, and I wouldn't even be typing these words if it wasn't for his valor. He was like 17, the gunman was like 16. I was around 19. I was doing nothing to provoke him, yet he singled me out from 4 of us and decided to pistol whip me with the barrel of his gun, and split my left ear in half. Then the tackle. When I saw my friends run away, I told my GF at the time (White American Girl, felt horrible she was exposed to third world reality) to run, and follow them. The gunman got up and started shooting in our direction. Bullets were whizzing by, but I could not run at full speed since my GF was in high heels and I tried to stay behind her to take the bullet if I had to. She lost one shoe in the run and sort of tripped. We ended up being OK but the good kid died. I will never sit there and be mugged again, if I have to die defending myself or a loved one, I'll do it in a heartbeat. That still lingers in the back of my head the poor kid had to die just so I can continue in this forsaken life. My martial arts training became much more serious after that, and because of that.