Um, a couple of days ago.... I forget when but it was when a group of my friends and I went to go see Transformers. And it seemed like that whole day my best friend kept flirting with my guy friend, let's call him.. Billy and my best friend is Lisa, and... Billy's girlfriend is.. Erica. Anyway, Lisa SEEMED to be flirting with Billy. Seemed, not that she was but it seemed like it to me. And all day I kept telling her "you know, Lisa, please knock it off with Billy because it kind of seems like you're flirting with him." and she told me "Please, it's not even like that. Billy's my boo we're just playing around." and I just let that go. Anyway, she continued to "play around" with him and I kept telling her to tone it down. And she got sort of mad at me which is understandable because I was getting on her nerves. Anyway, some of the people we were with kept making a big deal out of it saying "ooee look at Billy and Lisa making that chocolate milkshake (don't ask inside joke)" and basically implying that they were flirting around.Now the people or rather person who kept saying this is EXTREMELY two-faced. She acts one way around people and then totally different if one of them leaves. She talks behind peoples back. She's an instigator and always gets people to agree with her. You're probably saying "so confront her". Hell to the no. She's bigger than me, she could squish me, or worse, eat me. I'm David, she's Goliath, but this David has no stones so David won't be picking a fight. Anyway, I knew she was going to go and tell Erica, Billy's girlfriend just to stir up trouble and possibly ruin the friendship between Erica and Lisa and the relationship between Billy and Erica. So I told Lisa, that even though she may not think it's a big deal tell Erica first that whatever foolish people try to sway her into thinking that her and Billy were flirting that it's a lie. She argued with me a little that it's no big deal but I finally convinced her to get to her first. So when she told Erica, Erica was kind of confused but she just like ok because the two of them are good friends. So it's been a while. But yesterday, we had a dance rehearsal. Everyone was there including Billy and Erica and Goliath but Lisa wasn't there. You can see where this is going. Goliath about 3 hours into rehearsal was shouting out all of Lisa's business and kept telling Erica all this crap that Lisa was flirting with her man. And Erica was pissed off to no end. And I was like the only one out of 6 people to back up Lisa because that's my girl. But people kept saying "stop sticking up for her and being a little goody goody". And even BILLY and HIS SISTER agreed with Goliath. They were so quick with it too. I was shocked. So now Erica practically hates Lisa for messing with her boyfriend but she wasn't flirting. That's just Lisa's personality it doesn't mean she likes him. She does that with most of her guy friends and she doesn't like them like that. So now I don't know whether to tell Lisa or not. I mean she knows that Goliath is a two-faced bum and everything. But the other people are my friends too, they just got swayed too easily... or maybe they think she was flirting too. But even if they thought she was flirting they shouldn't have jumped on her like that. And I told all of them "why are you talking about her behind her back why don't you discuss this to her face" but of course I was ignored. I don't want to tell her but then I feel as though I have too. I'm not going to rehearsal today but she is. Erica won't be there though. But everyone else will. I really don't know what to do.
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A little confused
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well... that might be kind of hard considering my best friend Lisa just called me and told me everything Goliath said. which was every lie you could think. She called her today really early and told her that everybody was talking about her yesterday and the she was the only one trying to defend her and lied about everything else that happened. Seriously, I might just go to jail for murder because this son of a boob is getting on my last nerves. I have so much anger right now I don't know what to do with myself. My friend was on the brink of crying. I want to curse this girl out so very very badly.
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I'm not "meddling" in their bizzness lol. She's been lying about me for... the past week. But you know what, you are quite right. I think I'll just beat her with a stick instead. And then stay out of their bizzness.
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I think Helms is right. Don't get involved.
Ah...high school drama.
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lol she's not even in my school. But it's hard to ignore someone who keeps lying about you to all of your friends and trying to break you and your best friend up. Sigh.. nevermind. thanks anyway.
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Originally Posted By: ClassyBlackWomanAh...high school drama. Ah yes, the wonderful school-aged-worry-free-"s/he's talking about me-so-I'll-beat-her-down-cuz-that's-how-I-roll" attitude. Even though you've wanted this thread to stop - I'm assuming - I think it needs to be said that your friends are truly immature. Go to rehearsal and make it known that you're not going to get involved in any pending confrontation. If lisa gets in trouble, her mouth got here there. If erica or "billy" have issues, it's because they don't want to acknowledge that billy effed up just as much as lisa did. just don't worry about it, really.