- I started going down on my g/f about a year ago. Since then i've done it numerous times every week because, well, i'm a whore. She has no problem with it because i've gotten very good with it. But what I don't understand is everytime she orgasms she pushes me away and says stop, and when I try to keep going I feel her muscles shaking and she starts to breathe louder than she was before and that's when she'll push my head away again because she says she can't take it anymore. Why is that?2. I just wish my fingering was as good as my oral sex. I have no problem finding her clit with my tongue because i know exactly what it feels like. But when we are just making out and i try to find it, it feels like a maze. Maybe i'm just orally fixated, I don't know. I guess it's because tongues are more sensitive than fingers and that's why i can feel it better with my tongue. I can find it when i'm looking at it, but I don't want to always have to look at it in order to find it.
Dont feel bad about her pushing you away. I had something like this happen to me too, only it was during sex. It really just felt soo great that I felt that I couldnt take much more of it so I pushed him away. I didnt want to, but thats just how I reacted.Sometimes it really just does feel that damn good that a girl can lose her head over it. Hey it just means you were doing really really really good go you!I have no advice for the second question. sorry. Never had any problems with finding my own.