Probably a fluke but....AAAAHHH

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my gf called me up at midnight saying she thought she was pregnant. shes been sick the last few days at morning and night. we didnt have unprotected sex but i was in the area 8 days ago and 11 days ago with definate precum transfering but that was at the end of her last period and 10 days after. when we had sex i used a condom and didnt cum. shes in washington dc so i cant talk about more or make her go to the store and just buy a pregnancy test. she mainly thinks that she is pregnant because her mom asked her out of the blue if there was a chance that she could be pregnant.couple questions:1) how worried should i be?2) is there anything i can do to get a more definative about it with out a pregnancy test she is gone for another week?3) i looked a planed parenthood website and it had all the prices excepts for that of the medication abortion if she is indeed pregnant. how much would this cost and is it the way to go rather then the sucktion?4) what are symptoms besides nasuau and missed period?sry for another omfg wtf jesus christ post but how worried should i be? she said she thought she might be and looked it up and online it said that there could be nasua 10-14 days after so i freaked out.

Originally Posted By: wowheadwe didnt have unprotected sex but i was in the area 8 days ago and 11 days ago with definate precum transfering but that was at the end of her last period and 10 days after.Huh?1) how worried should i be?If you used a condom and didn't ejaculate, why would you even need to think she's pregnant?2) is there anything i can do to get a more definative about it with out a pregnancy test she is gone for another week?Don't think so. If she misses her next period for over a week, then she needs a pregnancy test.3) i looked a planed parenthood website and it had all the prices excepts for that of the medication abortion if she is indeed pregnant. how much would this cost and is it the way to go rather then the sucktion?How about, instead of an abortion, you look at the Planned Parenthood site again to find your girlfriend a method of birth control? And I personally don't have a clue how much the abortion pill is.4) what are symptoms besides nasuau and missed period?You mean for pregnancy?

yeah. she thinks it is because i have poked around down there without a condom full penetration without but play for lack of a better word. im moving out of the states 4 days after she gets back and we will try the whole long distance thing so she hopefully wont be having sex for a while. does not seem worth the money.

Originally Posted By: wowheadyeah. she thinks it is because i have poked around down there without a condom full penetration without but play for lack of a better word.Oh, sorry, I misunderstood you in your first post. Since you didn't a condom for whatever "reason", then yeah, you might be in trouble. Originally Posted By: wowheaddoes not seem worth the money. Doesn't seem worth the money for birth control or condoms, but when an "uh-oh" comes along, you'll get an abortion pill no matter the cost?

condoms are easy. the site said that the pill was 30-150 for an exam and 30-50 per month which seems excessive. if i was staying id find a way to make the money. 30 i could do but 150 is a lot.

If money's an issue, go to your local Planned Parenthood and they can help you. They will give your girlfriend a green card that will give her anything she needs for a safe and healthy sex life.And if condoms are easy, then why didn't you use them?

gf wanted them off believed that if i put it on wed have sex and she wasnt ready and condoms can get really annoying i find due to their taste and sticky residue so i didnt complain

Honey, since you're old enough to have sex, you're old enough to know that that's NO excuse. You must always use protection to protect her AND you. And now, look at where it's gotten you.Either learn to use protection all the time or stop having sex until the both of you are ready.

I must say my friend You have quite the way of handling these situations.

I however, still find this situation horrifically confusing.

Helms.. you have no idea how much I'm scared shitless by the fact its spreading.

OP. I'm sorry but, I have to ask how old are you? In the real world 150 bucks for an intial exam ain't shit. 30 dollars a month? if your intent on having sex then you need to pay that money.

Condoms protected from STDs. And Birth Control pills work as back up to stop chances of pregnancy.

Helms used this term before so I'm stealing it from him real quick. You know the dangers of working with saws in a shop so you take proper precautions. Why would should sex be any different it is just as dangerous?

im 16 so its a nice bit of money. i have summer school and had football practice this summer so i couldnt work and while my parents have money they do not believe in giving it to me past the neccesary accomadations they believe that it builds money skills for later in life.

Have you told him about our HIV treatment centers, clinical trials, and observational studies we have here at UCSD? Not to mention support groups.

Some people live life a little riskier than others, especially those who welcome death and have no fear of it. If you're one of those people that are constantly worried about dying, I suggest to live a careful life, or try to any way. Death happens even to healthiest of us, look at Bruce Lee.

If you're only 16, then more reason for you to give up sex and focus on school and football until you grow up and learn about responsibility. Or you can go to Planned Parenthood like I suggested and get some help on getting birth contol.

eh i have a 4.4 gpa and just quit football cause im moving to switzerland but i was starting varsity as a sophmore. i found out it was nothing and her mom told her shit just to freak her out to see her reaction and see if we have had sex or not before. thanks for the help.

Ugh, sorry what about what her mom did. But at least (I truly hope) you'll know better next time to use a condom, if you plan on having sex again.