I might be pregnant...?

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I want to know what my chances are of being pregnant/getting pregnantI had sex with a guy about 4-5 days ago and he didn't use a condom, i know he should of but we couldn't find out.SO we did it anways, i'm not here to hear about how dumb i am i know that already i've heard it enough today so please cut me some slack on that part.He pulled out right when he started to cum, he might of started to cum WHILE pulling out, he's not sure because it was his first time. I have been told that there is more sperm in precum and thats where girls actually get impregnated, is right before the guy orasgms/cums. He pulled out and when i looked the cum was already coming out. Well i'm in the middle of my month. And I'm afraid of getting pregnant.I talked to him about if i was pregnant, and he was like not even giving me a choice, like i HAD to get an abortion. But if i am, i'm not getting one unless something bad happens to the baby. I'm against it. I dont care if anyone else does it, i just woudln't do that to myself.you can ask questions if that didn't answer anything you might be wondering.& i'll answer.Because i really want to know my chances.

Quote: Can I get pregnant from pre-cum?Can I get pregnant from pre-cum? and how long should I be worried about being pregnant if I dont have my period for 2 weeks? When a guy has that clear discharge stuff that comes out before he cums? Well....can that make a girl pregnant? I have heard it cann't and I have heard it can. Yes, it is possible to get pregnant from pre-cum (a slang word for the drops of pre-ejaculatory secretions that come out of the penis in response to sexual stimulation) as this may contain sperms remaining in the ducts following a previous ejaculation. However, for pregnancy to occur in such a situation, both the man and women should be highly fertile and the exposure of that fluid to the female genitalia should occur close to the ovulation day. You may wish to know that there are recorded cases of women who became pregnant this way. If you have had a sexual encounter which you suspect could lead to pregnancy, get tested as soon after 7 days from the ovulation day, as possible. There are sensitive test kits such as those based on ELISA principle, which can detect pregnancy at least a week before your period is due. And if you miss a period get tested within the next week itself.  Quote: Q:What are the chances of getting pregnant if the guy pulled out but it is ovulation time?A:The chances of getting pregnant are very high whenever there has been unprotected sex. The chances greatly increase during ovulation time even if the guy the pulled out. A man will pre-ejaculte or precum which is something they do not even feel or have control over and that is where the strongest sperm are swimming.

First things first...  Quote:I have been told that there is more sperm in precum and thats where girls actually get impregnated, is right before the guy orasgms/cums. That is not at all true. Precum has only trace amounts of sperm in it, the fluids that precum consists of usually just pick up leftover sperm that lines the urethra from previous ejaculations. A full on ejaculation is far more likely to get you pregnant than the lubricating substance that precedes it.That being said, the lack of use of a condom mixed with the precum and the possibility of him ejaculating inside of you, in the middle of your cycle, gives you a relatively high chance of being pregnant, statistically. Whether you are or not is up to you to find out.  Quote:I talked to him about if i was pregnant, and he was like not even giving me a choice, like i HAD to get an abortion. But if i am, i'm not getting one unless something bad happens to the baby. I'm against it. I dont care if anyone else does it, i just woudln't do that to myself. This is the touchy issue really, the rights of the father against the rights of the mother and her body. He cannot force you to get an abortion, if you truly find it unacceptable (except in cases where its necessary) then you should have the baby. He could be an absolute tool and cut himself off from you and the baby, from there I think it becomes a legal issue. I'm not certain as to how US law works in matters such as child support, so I'll allow someone more knowledgeable to continue from here.Good look to you, I hope this turns out favourable for you.

Originally Posted By: sexy1gurlx69he didn't use a condom, i know he should of but we couldn't find out.Couldn't find out what? Originally Posted By: sexy1gurlx69SO we did it anways, i'm not here to hear about how dumb i am i know that already i've heard it enough today so please cut me some slack on that part.No one's going to call you dumb. But I do have some words for you:Stop having sex. Period.Sorry honey, but for whatever reason you didn't use a condom, you're simply not ready to have sex until you can head on straight. You must always protect yourself from STDs and pregnancy. You should love yourself enough to protect your life. Originally Posted By: sexy1gurlx69He pulled out right when he started to cum, he might of started to cum WHILE pulling out, he's not sure because it was his first time. ...He pulled out and when i looked the cum was already coming out. Well i'm in the middle of my month. And I'm afraid of getting pregnant.Going by what you said, the chances are pretty high. Originally Posted By: sexy1gurlx69I talked to him about if i was pregnant, and he was like not even giving me a choice, like i HAD to get an abortion. But if i am, i'm not getting one unless something bad happens to the baby. I'm against it. I dont care if anyone else does it, i just woudln't do that to myself.He doesn't wear a condom and tells you to get an abortion? Drop the guy from your life, he's not worth it.It's up to YOU whether you want to have an abortion or not. If you don't want to have one, just stick to your guns because no one can force you to have an abortion. Originally Posted By: sexy1gurlx69you can ask questions if that didn't answer anything you might be wondering.Do you know when your next period will be? I'm asking because if you are more than a week late, then you should take a pregnancy test to make sure if you are indeed pregnant or not.

My last period started on the 21st of july. Mine are used to be around 5 weeks, sometimes they're every 4.But either way its expected to come around the 18th through 25th, somewhere in there.

i want a RELIABLE source.I keep hearing "your chances are slim" and "your chances are very high"well its cant be both.So which one is it. its just making more confused

No one can tell you what your chances are. In between your periods(2weeks before or after period) is the highest chance that you are ovulating and thus your risk increases. You don't know... we don't know whether any of his semen got into your vagina or not. So it's point;ess to guess at what your chances are. In the future, be smarter and eliminate the risk.

A. We don't know the details.B. Everyones different.Quit honestly we don't know. There is a chance you can be sterile and no one is aware of it. There is a chance you are overly fertile and regardless of how much protection you use there is an increased risk of pregnancy. There is a chance you could be an alien who reproduces asexually. We don't know.Don't place your faith in stastics and logic. Despite what scientist want you to believe. The simple truth is sometimes its all irrelevent.You can't really ever tell what to expect. No matter how LOW the odds/stastics it can STILL happen.The odds of getting a good item on an MMORPG are like 1/1000. Sometimes I could get about 4 items within 1000. And sometimes I wouldn't get a single one for 2000 kills. Thats an item of medium value. I NEVER in ALL my time playing mmorpgs got a really rare item. I killed way over the limit that you should have to kill to get an extremely rare item and have never in my life gotten one.Stastics are nice.. but, ultimately worthless. Even at a 99.9 percent chance of getting pregnant. that .1 can happen.Don't have sex unless your ready to take ALL the risk.

I'm not gonna tell you that I know your exact chances, because I don't, but I will at least put in my input.MOST occurences of unprotected sex DON'T result in pregnancy. So, without knowing the impossible details of yours and your partner's fertility, etc., I want to tell you that you're PROBABLY not pregnant. As I'm sure you know, that's not a guarantee, at all. It really does depend on factors that we just can't determine: some pairings can have unprotected sex hundreds of times and never become pregnant: some couples do it once and poof, there's a fetus.But if I was gambling, I'd bet that you aren't pregnant.

No offence man but, right now statistics aren't really relevent and its probably not a good idea to give them because of the horrible accuracy that we have and lack of knowledge about the situation. I just feel it would be wrong to give her any hope or any condemnation by giving chances even if we knew them.Statistics were important when they shoulda been wearing a condom... "how much will this lower our chances" and "how much more can we reduce them with birth control pills?" and "what if the shit really hits the fan despite all odds and we still have a kid"However, now its really pointless to worry about much. It can go either way. Some people just can't have kids to save their life. Some can't stop having kids to save their life. Its all in the luck of the draw. Good luck is all I can really say.

Well. I talked to him today, about the whole thing.
He felt bad & decided to tell me he "didn't pull out as soon as he thought"
And well. he just HAD to wait till it was too late to take the morning after pill

Grr.

Originally Posted By: IneligibleGrr. ??grr??

Is it generic to be very fertile.Because i was an accident, due to my biological parents being fertile.

Quote:i want a RELIABLE source.I keep hearing "your chances are slim" and "your chances are very high"well its cant be both.So which one is it. its just making more confused And what do you consider reliable? Anybody's guess here is as reliable as anyone else's, its not like we'll send a Mod over to your house with a pregnancy test!And so far you've pretty much heard from everyone that your chances of being pregnant are very high, you probably picked the worst time in your cycle to have unprotected sex. And knowing that your parents were quite fertile just begs the questions why would you EVER have unprotected sex!?!? Why are you not on birth control if, apparently, you're SO easy?? And WHY did you have to wait for him to admit that he came inside you? From the moment that you felt that something may have gone wrong, WHY did you not take the morning after pill straight away??Its as if you actually want to get pregnant.

Quote: And what do you consider reliable? Anybody's guess here is as reliable as anyone else's, its not like we'll send a Mod over to your house with a pregnancy test!And so far you've pretty much heard from everyone that your chances of being pregnant are very high, you probably picked the worst time in your cycle to have unprotected sex. And knowing that your parents were quite fertile just begs the questions why would you EVER have unprotected sex!?!? Why are you not on birth control if, apparently, you're SO easy?? And WHY did you have to wait for him to admit that he came inside you? From the moment that you felt that something may have gone wrong, WHY did you not take the morning after pill straight away??Its as if you actually want to get pregnant. I know I seem like a really stupid teen, who really messed up.I'm more than that.try and see past it

I do see past it, that's why I never mentioned any of this stuff in my original reply to you. But then you chose to consider my ADVICE to be unreliable.

I know I seem like a random forum poster giving you shit for fucking up badly.

I'm more than that.
Try and see past it.

I hope for the sake of everyone invovled your not pregnant.However at this point stastics are totally irrelevent.

Originally Posted By: sexy1gurlx69i want a RELIABLE source.I keep hearing "your chances are slim" and "your chances are very high"well its cant be both.So which one is it. its just making more confused I don't feel like repeating myself, so... Originally Posted By: Virtual_StarDo you know when your next period will be? I'm asking because if you are more than a week late, then you should take a pregnancy test to make sure if you are indeed pregnant or not. The reason why I asked you that is so you can know if you missed your period. And IF your period is about a week late, take a pregnancy test. No one can give you a sure answer, so it's pointless to ask for a "reliable" source here. The only thing for sure is a test but you're going to have to wait for that.The only thing we can give you is our thoughts. Making babies isn't rocket science. You are a young lady full of hormones, who's in the middle of her cycle, had unprotected sex, and the guy ejaculated. There may be a chance you could dodge a bullet, but in my honest opinion, your chances for pregnancy is high.I will repeat this though: STOP HAVING SEX!

Quote:Making babies isn't rocket science. True, but making babies fly is!