hmmm so ive been on the pill now for about 4 months id say. and ive been taking it well etc but now i want me and my bf to get intimate, one of the things i want him to do is cum on me- __ on my 'special place' not inside it. and im aware that there is still a small risk of pregnancy while on the pill, but im just wondering does anyone have any idea how safe in terms of getting pregnant this would be? thanks
Cum on me??
I think if you're on the pill it should be pretty safe. It wouldn't be safe enough if you weren't on the pill, even though the chances would be much lower than if he were inside you.
I think officially, if taken as directed, the pill is 99% effective.
I think you'll be fine. Most pills become effective after 7 days of regular use. I've been on the pill for half a year now and have regular unprotected sex with my boyfriend and comes inside me.
I have some Plan B pills and some pregnancy pee sticks in the medicine cabinet just in case I miss my period but I don't think I will. If I miss a pill, we use condoms until I'm protected again.
If you take your pill everyday at the same time you will be just fine. If you're still worried, you can buy some lubrication with spermicide in it.
If you have anymore questions feel free to message me! Good luck!
I'm on birth control and I did that once. I didn't get pregnant, but since there's still a chance (even though it's really, really small), I wouldn't do it again. I have too much to lose.