Lately I have been wondering what excately is a fetish. I herd a psychologist say one time "anything Needed to achieve orgasm." However, the term tend to be thrown out there alot more. Somewhat like depression. People tend to say "I'm depressed" all the time however, they don't have "depression" in the sense of a long term illness. they are just sad their puppy died or w/e.How do you define a fetish? Necessity or luxary? I have also seen Helms post a few times talking about "unnatural urges" as in people watch something then feel the need to do it >.I personally think it makes perfect sense. I remember seeing a peanut butter add in which a modle was wearing only peanut butter. Even though it was years ago i realise I now have an addiction to peanut butter. (As a student of marketing I must say that was BRILLIANT! XD).
i know u don't want a dictionary definition of fetish.. if u did u could just have goggled it so.. this is wut i think (on both fetishes and depression.)
fetish has to with sex and attraction (i dk for sure about the attrition.. but i guess a person that has a foot fetish is attracted to feet so in that way.. it's a attrition)
depression is way different than sadness.
now i'll use the pup dieing (cuz well a few weeks ago we did loose a pup) and this is how it is. a person will be sad for their pup.. i dk. days or weeks maybe longer pending on how they were attached to the pup. a person with depression will be more than sad. the sadness will trigger other things and then it just kinda goes to hell. i dk if that was a good enough example tho.
I personally don't think people can self ..i dk the word urggg. i don't think people should say i'm depressed cuz my pup died. sad ...yes but yea some people can go into depression cuz their pup died. i think those people have medical reason too tho. some people have chemical imbalances and some people (like me) don't. I have c-ptsd and depression is part all the shit that comes with having stupid ptsd.
How do you define a fetish? As an attrition. Like I said ^
Necessity or luxury? Could be both.. I guess it has to do with how strong the fetish is. I dk if fetishes have like degrees or wutever. Like a foot fetish. The person may see something on a foot that turns them off and I guess that would be when it would fall in the necessity. The necessity is he/she has to like the feet on the other person.
A luxury would be the person isn't turned off enough to not be with them but if they liked the other person's foot they would be more exited.
**I have also seen Helms post a few times talking about "unnatural urges" as in people watch something then feel the need to do it >.
Quote:I personally think it makes perfect sense. I remember seeing a peanut butter add in which a model was wearing only peanut butter. Even though it was years ago i realize I now have an addiction to peanut butter. (As a student of marketing I must say that was BRILLIANT! XD). I hate benutbutter…lol but I love M&Ms and we all know those commercials are usually hilarious. I’m not sure if it’s why I like them so much or wut but when I go in a store and see the bag one of those hilarious commercials pop into my head and yea.. I don’t leave the store with out a bag. So I get wut ur saying.
I think it all really depends on the person. Some people need their fetish, what ever it may be, to get themselves off, others don't.I don’t necessarily think that a fetish has to be something that ‘gets you off,’ it can just be something you’re attracted to. I, personally, have a thing for hands. I like long, slender, ‘piano playing hands’ - - why? Not a clue!. Now when I see a man with ‘piano’ hands, it doesn’t make my toes curl and my pulse race, it’s just something I find attractive but I can live without it. If a guy doesn’t have them, it’s not going to turn me off of them; it’s just an added perk if they do! lol
Necessity or luxary?
I like that!
I regard my own fetishes as luxury. I can get by with plain old fuckin' but thare are quite a few things I really prefer to throw into the mix
Hm. I have been asking "necessity or luxary" for a while >.>I'm a virgin but, I definitely have things that I want >.< or at least want to try >.<
Who doesn't? I mean, I'm not exactly Ms. Experience in the sex department myself, but there are def. some things I’d love to try (but I won't go into that right now lol) ^_^Some people 'need' their little fetishes, whereas others just like to spice things up every once in a while
Quote:I personally don't think people can self ..i dk the word urggg. i don't think people should say i'm depressed cuz my pup died. sad ...yes but yea some people can go into depression cuz their pup died. i think those people have medical reason too tho. some people have chemical imbalances and some people (like me) don't.well i think of it the emotion being called "depression" and then the disorder called "clinical depression".idk if thats the way it really is, but that seems better to me.but fetishes are so strange no offense!!!likeppl have the wierdest ones!!!!like theyd get off someone rubbing dead fish on their faceits so strange hahahaha
meh rubbing dead fish is abit out there.then again... on second thought.. fish are slimey.. so i could sorta see the alure >.<I better stop reading these things before I end up doing even wierder stuff then I already plan on XD