Ok look i don't mean 2 sound rude here but i have watch this site for almmost a year now and i have lost count of the times ppl have lied about size and the fact it doesn't matter....IT DOES. Also there are plenty of other guys and girl that put me down because of it anyway, and just havin one is not what matters. Sometimes i have a hard time just looking even at the 'thing'.
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Penis Pills?
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Originally Posted By: {STAR}i have watch this site for almmost a year now and i have lost count of the times ppl have lied about size and the fact it doesn't matter....Instead of reading all the posts that believe the opinion is size does matter, how about keeping track of posts from people who don't give a crap of the size? I've made a few posts here like that before.Bigger isn't always better.By they way, do you have a girlfriend and does she care about your size?
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I have one and yes she cares, i would like too add that would u be saying this if my gf didn't like what i have?
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Originally Posted By: {STAR}I have one and yes she cares, i would like too add that would u be saying this if my gf didn't like what i have? Then your girlfriend is the one with issues, not you. If she can't accept you for you and your body, then you gotta find someone better.
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There is no one else its her or no one and stuff doesn't here here i don't think. Also u think any other girl is gonna be any different BS.
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Originally Posted By: {STAR}There is no one else its her or no one and stuff doesn't here here i don't think. Also u think any other girl is gonna be any different BS. Trust me, she's not the only girl in the world.And that ignorant idea about all women being the same is what's blinding you to find happiness with someone.I don't give two shits and a fuck about size. It means nothing when it comes to a real relationship.
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i never said she was the only girl what i said or meant 2 say was that she is the only girl that would even look at me let alone go out with me. Also i hope u can tell this stuff when i get the piss taken of me by yet more girls and guys.
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Originally Posted By: {STAR}i never said she was the only girl what i said or meant 2 say was that she is the only girl that would even look at me let alone go out with me.I just finished reading through your posts in the Depression Forum. Your girlfriend lives in Canada while you live in England and you've been talking for a year.What I don't understand is why she would care about your size when you've never even met face to face? What confuses me even more is the idea of a threesome, even though the two of you never been physically intimate.
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First off if u read my posts then u should know that she coming here 2 england very soon, and yes she does want too have a phyical relationship.Second the idea of a 3some and etc would be months and months away first we both agreed that being confortable with each other first, which i don't think i can be ever be anyway. I also said i was unsure of the 3some which was y i was taking advice from other about it.
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Originally Posted By: {STAR}First off if u read my posts then u should know that she coming here 2 england very soon, and yes she does want too have a phyical relationship.I never said she didn't. What I asked is why does she care about your size if you've never even met in person? That's what I don't get.Or is it that you only THINK she cares?
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Because i asked her and she said yes
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Then I'm sorry, but your girlfriend has issues. I can only hope she'll mature soon enough to understand size doesn't mean anything.
No man's value is measured by the size of his penis. Please learn to believe that.
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Originally Posted By: Virtual_StarNo man's value is measured by the size of his penis. Please learn to believe that. Maybe not in everylife life, but in sex it is. U think if my size was alot bigger (without hurting her) she wouldn't feel better phyicaly in bed, i mean Common wake up m8.
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Sigh, who's been feeding you this garbage?
You think sex is just a guy's penis going in and out of a woman's vagina? Nope. There's touching, loving, emotional bonding, and making both you and your partner not just feel good physically but emotionally as well.
As long as you and her love each other or have some sort of connection, size doesn't matter.
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Ok i take u seen my posts about the casual sex tell me, if i was 2 do this 1 night stands and 3somes what would be the point in. There would be emotional attachments and the physical side would be VERY bad, then whats the point.Also with my gf sure she would emotionally happy (well i dunno having me as a bf could do that) and physically, how is that fair on her.
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Originally Posted By: {STAR}
Ok i take u seen my posts about the casual sex tell me, if i was 2 do this 1 night stands and 3somes what would be the point in. There would be emotional attachments and the physical side would be VERY bad, then whats the point.
That's why I said for you to wait until YOU are ready to do such things. Right now, with the way you feel about yourself, that's going to make you feel a whole lot worse and quite possible ruin your relationship with your current girlfriend.Originally Posted By: {STAR}
Also with my gf sure she would emotionally happy (well i dunno having me as a bf could do that) and physically, how is that fair on her.
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Originally Posted By: Virtual_Star Originally Posted By: {STAR}Ok i take u seen my posts about the casual sex tell me, if i was 2 do this 1 night stands and 3somes what would be the point in. There would be emotional attachments and the physical side would be VERY bad, then whats the point. That's why I said for you to wait until YOU are ready to do such things. Right now, with the way you feel about yourself, that's going to make you feel a whole lot worse and quite possible ruin your relationship with your current girlfriend.But i don't think i would ever be good at it, i will always be a filure at it. Originally Posted By: {STAR}Also with my gf sure she would emotionally happy (well i dunno having me as a bf could do that) and physically, how is that fair on her. How is that being unfair?Sorry typo that was meant 2 be "Also with my gf sure she would emotionally happy (well i dunno having me as a bf could do that) and not the physical how is that fair on her, as she only gets 1 half.
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Originally Posted By: {STAR}But i don't think i would ever be good at it, i will always be a filure at it.Since when performance in bed measures your worth? You really need to work on YOU. Forget about sex and stuff for now and focus on yourself. Originally Posted By: {STAR}Sorry typo that was meant 2 be "Also with my gf sure she would emotionally happy (well i dunno having me as a bf could do that) and not the physical how is that fair on her, as she only gets 1 half. Again, right now, I think it's best for you to forget about sex and focus on yourself. Also, you also need to learn that your feelings matter as well. She needs to help you build you up. You can't have a healthy relationship when you're having issues and your girlfriend is making you feel worse by expecting you be a pro in the sack and such.
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Wouldn't be easer too just not have sex at all?
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That's exactly what I'm saying. You need to just focus on yourself and try to improve yourself. Every single one of your posts have such a negative view on yourself. You have to work from within.