i have been seeing my partner for almost 10 months now, and although we fool around and things, we don't have sex. ok nothing wrong with that. at first i thought it was cause he didn't want to pressure me (me being the virgin in the relationship) and as i had just lost my father, and was a little fragile. however i know that he had bleeding 'issues' with himself when he had sex with his last partner. Now i am a total prude and hate talking about things, but this is kinda getting on my nerves now. i refuse to do anything until after his dissertation is in, but after that i feel i ought to do something. any help appreciated. hope this made sense xx
I take it the problem is the no sex? What were the "issues" your partner had? Erection difficulties?
getting it up is no probs, he just doesn't seem to want to go further or when we decide too he cannot. should i just talk to him about it? could it be nerves? he is fairly stressed at the moment.
The problem before was that it hurt him. i have suggested lube might help, but have not bought it up since.
You two most certainly need to talk about it.Sex shouldn't hurt. Was it lack of lubrication, or, perhaps, foreskin or frenulum problems?