My periods have hardly ever been regular. Sometimes I will have two periods in a month, or I'll skip a period, or whatever. It seems to happen a lot. But something that I can't remember happening to me in a long time is missing my period for two months in a row. It's starting to worry me.I really don't think that I could be pregnant, but I can't get it out of my head no matter how much I try. My boyfriend and I haven't had sex in almost a year (decided to wait to do it again until parents will put me on birth control to be safe)...but we did both engage in oral sex/mutual masturbation twice in mid-July and I haven't had a period since. I'm afraid to bring it up to my mom because, knowing her, she will not believe that we didn't have sex because ever since I told her that we have had sex before, she is paranoid about it and talks about putting me on birth control but has never made the appointment. And I just know she won't believe me if I tell her we haven't had sex in almost a year.On top of this, I've never been to a gynecologist, and even though I've read about everything to expect when you go to one, I just do NOT want to do it. Any advice on the subject? Anything would be helpful. I hate being parnoid.
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Starting to Worry a Bit.
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You're not dieting heavily, are you? Not enough food can make periods stop.
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No, I'm not on any sort of diet or anything. The only thing I can think of that I've done differently the past couple months is that my sleep schedule has pretty much reversed itself. With it being summer and all, I'm up super late and I sleep in most of the time...but I don't know if that could have anything to do with it.
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its possible. i really dont think you're pregnant
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Hello there,I was in a similar situation like you before I had sex and was on birth control. I had irregular periods also, where as I would have my period every 2 to 5 months at a time. I could never predict when my period would come.I went to the gynecologist to get help and it sounds like you MUST go also. I had hormonal issues that was causing my unpredictable periods. Therefore, I was put on birth control. And thanks to that, I have an easy period every month.I was very happy because not only was I getting a period every month, but it was easier to predict on the calendar when I will have my period. That way, I would know if I was pregnant or not (because I started having sex at this time).Sweetie, you need to go to a gynecologist. I don't know why you won't go but you can't even get birth control without going to one. Can you tell us why you won't go to one?
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It's not that I won't go, it's just something I am very nervous about doing. My biggest fear is that it will be something serious and I just really can't take the added stress of something like that right now.
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I can understand you being nervous. If it helps you, you can bring in someone with you when you are with the gynecologist. But you really should go, since this is your health we're talking about. I doubt that it's "serious", but if you don't get it checked out when you get the chance, it may turn into something serious.