Major regret

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My bf and I got into a huge fight last night, and I got really pissed off, and it felt like the only thing I could do was break up with him, because one minute hes the nicest guy alive, and the next hes telling me Im selfish, and inconsiderate..So I broke up with him....I couldnt sleep at all last night, because I knew that we would never see each other again, and ide never be able to be with him all the time, like we where.So, Im having MAJOR regrets about breaking up with himAnyone have any ideas or suggestions about what I should do, because I have no idea anymore

maybe you should try talking to him? unless stuff like this happens with him all the time, ive dealt with it before and its not fun.

I don`t know what I should say to him, Im not even sure how angry he is with me

If you want to be with him and you guys go well together and can get over the one-second-happy-another-second-snippy situation, then you should try talking to him and apologizing and see if he gives you another chance, all the while trying to gain back your independence by not trying to depend on him on many things you used to.

I hope that will work...but in the end, theres no way I can put it without sounding pathetic... or desperate.You guys have helped so much.Im feeling better now:D

Sure there is! Why not try, "Listen, about that fight... I just wanted to apologize because I realize I overreacted and went overboard on something I should've thought about first. I don't think we should actually be apart. I understand if you're still mad at me and don't want to get back together, (but I really think it'd be a mistake if we didn't). It's up to you and I'm sorry if I upset you."The parantheses means you might want to consider taking that out because I know some people don't like to mention their own opinion, as it kind of feels like it's taking away the permission to decide the choice for the person hearing this. You could also try explaining why you had gone overboard, somewhere after "I'm sorry I upset you." :D. This doesn't sound too pathetic, does it? I'd actually think my girlfriend (or boyfriend, whatever) would be very brave and mature for saying something like that to me :D. I wish you good luck and I'm glad you're feeling better!

great that will help a lot(hopefully!!!)I sent him a message, and he says....."i donno if i wanna get back with u like wtf do u think i would want after that fuckin bullshit :("So I sent him another message...."i dont know, I just had a little bit of hope that maybe, we could."and his reply:"not right now atleast im way to fucking hurt and stufff"ahhhh, i dont know if this is good or bad.

I say give him some time. It seems he could come around. I think it's best to give him some space for now, y'know. :D. I know you can deal. You can spend this time to regain your dependance, I guess?