That goes to my school that I really like, she is friends with a couple of my 'girl' friends(as in they are girls, but not gf's). But since may, late may, I have had a huge crush on her. Yet we have never spoken). A couple weeks later, near the end of school, I notice that she has added me on Facebook. So, I'm happy, and decide that I'll add her onto msn, and I do. She accepts me, but is never on. (ps. Just for the record, I am 17 and in a couple of days my grade 12 year will be starting) Now, all summer I could not get her out of my head. And noticed on a friends wall that she said she was going to slovakia all summer, so my chance to ask her than was blown. Now, school starts in a couple days. My first question is am I weird for liking a girl that I have never talked to? Is that odd, or normal? My second question, is how do I talk to her, how do I get the courage to just go up to her and ask her out? See, I have no problems when it comes to asking friends out, but when it comes to girls that I have never talked to before and only seen in the hallways several times a day, I'm completely out of my element, both lost and confused. Any help at all will do.
So, there's this girl...
It's not weird to like a girl you have never spoken to, but keep in mind that your mental image of her will include ideas about her personality based more on wishful thinking than reality. So you should get to know her better so the mental image can get corrected.There's no one right way to ask her, so just do it. Any way is better than not doing it. Ask her to something simple and non-threatening that doesn't commit her to a relationship.
Alright, thanks for the replies. I'll guess I'll just put my feelings down until I get to know her, than make my move. Thanks