Ok so i have this stalker that i really despise she knows everything about me and is just horrible to me.A group of friends i hang out with alot are friends with and invite her along sometimes, they seem to like her and talk to her more than me but i dont really mind because those friends dont mean that much to me.so i brought my best friend along to hang out with a group of friends and my stalker was there and her and my best friend talked and stuff and later that night my best friend added my stalker on myspace and msn. i dont want to be somebody that controls who someone talks to or who their friends are because i dont like people like that but my best friend knows how much i hate my stalker and how horrible she is and how upset she makes me i mean if it was my best friend in my situation i wouldnt talk to her stalker if she made her unhappy. Anyway my questions are > What should/can i do about this stalker> would it be so unreasonable to ask her not to talk to her? as the stalker talks about me to her and she doesnt stick up for me reallythis post doesnt make my best friend seem like a good one but shes an angel but i really dislike this stalker girl and i dont think its very nice of my friend to be talking to her =/
Quote:What should/can i do about this stalkerA lot depends on how bad the stalking is. If she hangs around your house at night or things like that there are stronger measures you can take. Quote:would it be so unreasonable to ask her not to talk to her?I think your friends would find that too controlling. Beware of putting them in a position where they have to choose between the two of you, unless you are quite sure which they will choose.