My whole life I've been kind of introverted + shy with people until I get to know them, and I have zero experience here. I met some girl at a senior prom that just happened to be going to the same college as myself, and we talked + danced for a bit there. I didn't really talk to her that much besides a facebook message here and there up until moving into college. Anyway I met up /w her on move in day, talked for a bit, and parted ways. The other day I asked if she wanted to hook up for dinner, and we did. We talked during dinner, it didn't go very smooth, but things were alright. At this point I find myself in the friend zone but want to break through.I end up going to her place later and we start drinking. Some other people come in and out as the night goes on. By the end of the night, I'm hammered and she's drunk. I say something about not knowing if I could find my way back home, and she quickly tells me I should stay there. Well long story short I end up sleeping /w her and hooking up.I don't know how to proceed from here. I'm not sure if she really wants me or if it was just the alcohol (even if the alcohol influenced her, would she still have to have some interest)? I don't want to come off as too aggressive either by constantly asking her to hang out, because if she regrets hooking up with me, she might feel it best to try to start avoiding me. At the same time, I don't want to blow something that could have been. Thoughts?
Clueless with girls
You have to ask her to hang out after that as soon as possible, because I know in that situation, as the girl, I'd probably feel like you only wanted to sleep with me if I didn't hear off you pretty quickly. I'd ask her to hang out!!
Dont let it sit. Some people use the 3 day rule after sex but it is the WRONG thing to do. At least call her up the next day (or as soon as you can!) Tell her you enjoyed the night and ask to hook up later.You can probably guage from her answer her response to the situation. Also in future if u didnt, its worth hanging about until she wakes up in the morning if u get up first. If she cooks you breakfast or to hang about for a bit, its a good sign